Shift from generic gratitude to a “delight practice” by actively noticing and recording 3-5 small, positive sensory experiences daily. This trains your brain to overcome negativity bias, making you more attuned to positive emotions and significantly improving life satisfaction in as little as two weeks.
Prioritize and schedule real-time social interactions, whether in-person, via video, or even an old-school phone call, over asynchronous communication like texting. Even brief “micro-doses” of genuine connection, like chatting with a barista or calling a friend, can significantly boost happiness and combat loneliness.
To enhance presence and cognitive performance, remove your phone from the room or keep it out of sight when engaging in tasks like studying, learning, or social interactions. The mere presence of a phone, even if unused, diverts mental resources and diminishes focus and connection, potentially leading to double-digit performance increases.
Practice “negative visualization” by briefly imagining losing something you value, like your health, success, or a loved one. This Stoic technique helps break through hedonic adaptation, allowing you to appreciate what you currently have more deeply without needing to experience actual loss.
Combat “time famine” by intentionally scheduling “time affluence” blocks in your calendar months in advance, leaving them completely free. Additionally, make intentional use of “time confetti” – small, unexpected chunks of free time – for beneficial activities instead of mindlessly defaulting to phone use.
When pursuing a new habit or goal, instead of solely fantasizing about success, actively visualize the potential obstacles and negative scenarios. This practice helps you proactively identify solutions and increases your motivation to overcome challenges, making goal attainment more likely.
Shift focus from self-care to “other-oriented” behaviors, as happy individuals tend to spend more time and resources on others. Spending money or time on someone else, rather than on yourself, can lead to a greater boost in your own happiness.
Don’t hesitate to ask for help from others, especially when they are capable of providing it. Asking for help is not a burden; it can be a “gift” that makes the helper feel competent and provides them with a happiness boost from assisting someone.
Identify your “signature strengths” (e.g., humor, bravery, love of learning) and actively look for ways to infuse them into your daily job tasks and leisure activities. This “job crafting” approach can make any role feel more purposeful and meaningful, enhancing overall life satisfaction.
Consider getting a pet, especially a dog, to boost happiness. Pets provide social connection, encourage physical activity (like walking), and foster presence through sensory interactions, serving as a bridge to human social connection and enhancing overall well-being.
Engage in at least 30 minutes of cardio exercise daily, as it is shown to be as effective as antidepressant medication in reducing symptoms of depression. This physical activity is a direct and powerful lever for improving mental health and happiness.
View negative emotions (e.g., outrage, frustration, overwhelm) not as problems to suppress, but as crucial “dashboard lights” providing useful signals about your life. Acknowledge and interpret these emotions to identify necessary behavioral changes or actions, rather than ignoring them.
Avoid the “arrival fallacy” by shifting your focus from the end destination to finding happiness in the journey and process of pursuing goals. Appreciate the ups and downs and cool experiences along the way, rather than solely anticipating joy upon reaching a specific outcome.
Enhance positive experiences by consciously acknowledging their temporary nature. Reminding yourself that good moments are finite can help you savor them more deeply and prevent taking them for granted, similar to the Stoic practice of Memento Mori.
Be cautious of “fast, high inflection of dopamine that does not require effort,” as it can lead to a cycle of diminishing pleasure and deeper troughs over time. To maintain healthy reward pathways, ensure that dopamine release is preceded by genuine effort, or consider periods of abstinence from low-effort rewards.
To quickly enhance presence and embodiment, intentionally engage your senses by noticing what you are seeing, hearing, feeling, and smelling in your immediate environment. This sensory grounding helps shift attention away from internal rumination and into the present moment.
If you identify as an introvert, challenge your negative predictions about social interactions by intentionally engaging in them, even briefly. Research shows introverts often experience greater happiness and positive emotions from social connection than they anticipate, allowing them to update their social reward expectations.
Actively seek out experiences that evoke “awe” – emotions that are complex, often a mix of positive and slightly destabilizing, but ultimately inspiring. These experiences, like witnessing grand natural phenomena or technological feats, can expand your perspective and enrich your emotional life.