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The Power of Community with The Happy Pear #38

Nov 28, 2018 1h 18m 22 insights
“The most important thing is love and that starts with yourself”   Once beer-swilling rugby players, my guests on this week’s episode are identical twins Stephen and David, who now make up The Happy Pear. They share their incredible journey into healthy vegan living and talk about their desire to start a health food revolution – with the goal of making healthy food and lifestyle mainstream. It all started with a small humble vegetable shop and they now own a chain of natural food shops and cafés in Ireland as well as having their own plant-based food range in the UK. But for The Happy Pear, the cafés were also about creating a community around them, something which they have achieved in a truly inspiring way. We talk about how fundamental community is to our happiness and health. Their story is captivating and their energy is almost tangible. It’s impossible not to feel uplifted, positive and happy in their company – I hope you enjoy the conversation as much as I did! Show notes available at drchatterjee.com/happypear Follow me on instagram.com/drchatterjee/ Follow me on facebook.com/DrChatterjee/ Follow me on twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk
Actionable Insights

1. Cultivate a Supportive Community

Actively choose to surround yourself with a “tribe” of people who support your lifestyle and values, as community is identified as the number one factor for longevity, health, and happiness according to Blue Zones research.

2. Integrate Daily Movement

Aim for 10,000 steps a day and consistent movement throughout the day, rather than just vigorous exercise, as prolonged sitting is detrimental to health and consistent movement is a cornerstone of happiness.

3. Prioritize Quality Sleep

Make sleep a priority by creating a consistent bedtime routine, ensuring a dark room, reducing screen time before bed, and maintaining consistent sleep and wake times, as it impacts testosterone levels and calorie consumption.

4. Increase Whole Food & Fiber Intake

Focus on eating more whole foods, especially fruit, vegetables, beans, legumes, and whole grains, to increase fiber, which aids weight loss, digestion, and immune system health, and also reduces environmental impact.

5. Cultivate Self-Love and Presence

Do more things that bring you back to the present moment and cultivate a sense of self-love, recognizing that filling your own cup is essential before you can support others.

6. Trust Your Inner Beliefs

Prioritize following your heart and self-belief, even if it means going against the crowd or societal expectations, as this can lead to personal transformation and inspiration.

7. Embrace a “We” Mentality

Shift your focus from individualistic “I” to a collective “we” to foster health, happiness, and community, moving beyond purely materialistic goals.

8. Leverage Social Accountability for Habits

To ensure consistent habits, especially when motivation is low, leverage social accountability by agreeing to meet friends for activities like exercise or meditation, as the commitment to others helps you show up and perform.

9. Foster a Connection to Nature

Actively seek to connect with the natural world, whether through walks in a park, running in a forest, or ocean swimming, and consider fostering this connection in children.

10. Practice Cold Water Therapy

Engage in cold water swimming (dubbed “Dr. C” for its medicinal benefits) to bring you back to the present moment, invigorate your immune system, and potentially improve mental health, followed by shared tea and conversation.

11. Savor Experiences Mindfully

Instead of rushing, take time to sit down and savor daily experiences like drinking coffee, appreciating its origin and the journey it took, to foster gratitude and presence.

12. Start Lifestyle Changes Gradually

Begin any lifestyle change from where you are currently, making small, incremental adjustments rather than attempting an “all or nothing” approach, especially when introducing more fiber.

13. Involve Family in Lifestyle Change

When making lifestyle changes, encourage your entire family to participate together, as individual change is significantly harder if those around you are not also making similar efforts.

14. Leverage Social Media for Offline Connection

Utilize social media platforms to create “of the moment” invitations that lead to physical meetups and real-world connections, bridging the digital and physical realms.

15. Maintain Old Friendships, Adapt Activities

Maintain respect and connection with old friends, even if your lifestyles diverge, by adapting shared activities rather than abandoning the friendship entirely.

16. Enjoy Your Food Choices

Ensure you enjoy your food choices, as there’s no point in eating something you dislike, even if it’s perceived as healthy; enjoyment is part of a fulfilled life.

17. Avoid Overly Microscopic Diet Focus

Realize that food is only one small part of being a happy human, and avoid becoming “too microscopic” or extreme in dietary pursuits, as it doesn’t guarantee enlightenment or overall happiness.

18. Define Success by Daily Rituals

Redefine true success as consistently engaging in foundational daily rituals like an hour of training, a sunrise swim, and spending time with family, considering anything else a bonus.

19. Acknowledge Others with Greetings

Simply saying hello and acknowledging people can be a first step to connecting with others, transforming strangers into acquaintances and potentially friends.

20. Create Inviting Public Spaces

Consider creating inviting spaces, like a bench or swing in your garden, to encourage strangers to sit down and initiate conversations, fostering new friendships and community connections.

21. Connect with Organic Farming

Consider spending time working on an organic farm to gain a deeper appreciation for where food comes from and to foster a connection with the land and nature.

22. Supplement Daily with Greens Powder

Take a tasty greens powder every morning as an “insurance policy” to ensure you are meeting your nutritional needs, especially in a busy world where eating whole foods can be challenging.