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If This Man Can Change, Anyone Can - Armed Robber to Record Breaking Athlete: John McAvoy (Re-release) #262

Apr 23, 2022 2h 41m 15 insights
CAUTION ADVISED: this podcast contains swearing.   Is there a change you’d like to make in your life? Something you’re desperate to overcome, but can’t see how? Or a goal you’re scared to aim for, because it feels too far off? My guest on this week’s podcast might just convince you to have a go. He’s John McAvoy, endurance athlete extraordinaire, author and the man with one of the most inspirational stories I have ever heard.   John was born into a notorious crime family and has served a total of 10 years in some of the UK’s highest security prisons, for armed robbery. He was raised into a life of organised crime and, as a teenager, it was the only career path he could see for himself. In fact, he bought his first gun at the age of 16 and very quickly became one of the UK’s most wanted men. How did he go from serving two life sentences to breaking British and World sporting records and giving talks to schoolchildren? From violent criminal to opinion leader, invited to 10 Downing Street for his views on the justice system? You’ll have to listen and find out.   Not only is every part of John’s story worthy of a Hollywood movie script, the lessons and life advice he shares are relevant to each and every one of us. Whether you’re interested in his rowing and Ironman success, how he transformed his moral code or how he overcame adversity, this really is a compelling conversation. I know you’re going to be as gripped by John as I was. Thanks to our
Actionable Insights

1. Cultivate Self-Belief & Vision

Believe in your potential and visualize success without self-imposed limits, striving to be the best version of yourself. This approach prevents you from being hindered by external benchmarks and empowers continuous personal growth.

2. Embrace Personal Transformation

Recognize that past decisions do not define your future, as change is always possible regardless of your current situation. You have the power to rewrite your life’s story and narrative at any time.

3. Acknowledge Mortality for Change

Use the awareness of life’s preciousness and your own mortality as a powerful catalyst for profound personal change. This perspective can help you realize the futility of negative patterns and inspire a desire to live a more meaningful life.

4. Seek Control in Your Life

Identify and establish elements of control in challenging or restrictive environments, as this is crucial for human well-being and resilience. This can be achieved by choosing what you consume (e.g., information, activities) and how you react.

5. Disengage from Negative Influences

Actively remove yourself from negative conversations and environments, and disconnect from social circles that do not align with your desired path. This creates space for positive growth and prevents being dragged back into destructive patterns.

6. Prioritize Self-Care

Be mindful of over-committing, even for good causes, and learn to say no when necessary to protect your physical and mental health. Neglecting self-care can lead to illness and render you ineffective in helping others.

7. Take Full Responsibility

Accept full responsibility for all decisions made in your life, both good and bad, without blaming external factors. This mindset is crucial for personal accountability and initiating genuine change.

8. Educate Yourself Relentlessly

Actively seek out information and knowledge to master new skills or understand new fields, just as John studied sports nutrition and training. Continuous learning is vital for personal development and achieving new aspirations.

9. Find Mentors & Support

Actively seek out individuals who believe in your potential and are willing to support you without personal gain. Building a new, positive social circle can provide crucial encouragement and guidance.

10. Redefine Legacy as Impact

Shift your definition of success from material wealth or personal accolades to having a positive impact on other people’s lives and lifting them up. This reorientation provides a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment.

11. Leverage Awareness of Triggers

Utilize your awareness of personal triggers and warning signals to avoid repeating past mistakes. This self-knowledge allows for proactive decision-making and steering clear of detrimental paths.

12. Speak Authentically

Communicate authentically by speaking from your heart and being true to yourself, rather than memorizing scripts or trying to be someone you’re not. This fosters genuine connection and influence.

13. Exercise for Well-being

Incorporate regular exercise into your routine, not just for physical health, but as a powerful coping mechanism and a way to feel alive and human, especially during challenging times.

14. Discover Latent Talents

Recognize that you may possess inherent gifts or abilities that you are unaware of, and actively explore different activities to discover them. John’s unknown endurance ability was a key to his transformation.

15. Stay Connected to Reality

Actively engage with current affairs and external information to avoid becoming isolated or institutionalized in your own bubble. This helps maintain perspective and prevents life from passing you by.