Acknowledge and trust that you are the ultimate expert of your own life, as no one else has your unique lived experience or internal wisdom.
Your true purpose is to be authentically yourself, not to chase external validation, status, or success, as these external factors are not who you truly are.
Strive to cultivate a deep inner truth and conviction that is independent of external understanding or agreement, knowing that your personal truth is what truly matters for you.
Focus on finding your own power, truth, and purpose, rather than relying on others to tell you what to do, to avoid stripping yourself of your own agency.
Regularly practice solitude to shut down external noise and listen to your inner voice, as this is a crucial practice for health, happiness, and living from the inside out.
Dedicate time to yourself to get to know who you truly are, as this self-knowledge is fundamental to establishing and living your own truth.
To listen to your intuition, first allow yourself to fully feel all your emotions, including those you’ve avoided, as intuition resides beneath them and cannot be selectively accessed.
Recognize that your intuition often speaks inconvenient truths about situations like jobs or relationships; acknowledge these truths even if they scare you, as you already know what needs to be done.
Recognize that indecision is disempowering; you likely already know what to do, but fear is holding you back, so confront that fear to move forward.
If you’re in a situation you dislike, consciously choose to be there for now, and then begin to analyze why it feels out of alignment to understand what needs to change.
Integrate spirituality as a way of life, approaching all experiences, even difficult ones, with devotion, meaning, and purpose, asking ‘What can I learn from this?’ rather than feeling like a victim.
Recognize that your perspective on life’s events is a choice; consciously choose empowering and helpful beliefs, such as ’everything is happening for me,’ to foster growth.
Commit to a consistent daily practice, even for a short duration like six minutes, and trust that over time, your life will transform in unimaginable ways.
Begin your self-care journey by committing to just five to ten minutes for yourself each day, starting small and consistently, as even this brief time is crucial for well-being.
Focus on the consistency of showing up for your chosen practice, even if it’s just for a few minutes, as the act of showing up is more important than the duration or intensity.
Consistently carving out time for yourself, even in small ways, builds self-trust, which then empowers you to act on bigger ’niggles’ like quitting a job, pursuing brave endeavors, or having difficult conversations.
Start each day by placing your hands over your heart, tuning in, and asking yourself, ‘What do I need today?’ to reconnect with your inner self.
Before making a snap decision, pause and feel into how a choice or situation truly resonates with you, rather than relying solely on logic.
When faced with choices, imagine each option and assess how it feels, then lean towards what feels purposeful, meaningful, and joyful.
At the end of each day, replay your actions and reactions with curiosity, asking ‘why’ without judgment, to uncover conditioning and behaviors out of alignment with your truth.
Avoid invalidating your own emotions by questioning or comparing them; simply acknowledge and accept how you feel without judgment or seeking external justification.
When an emotion arises, simply acknowledge and feel it (e.g., ‘I feel sad’) without immediately needing to create a story about its origin or justification.
Explore expressing emotions by asking what they would say or how they would move, then allowing that expression through your body to access deeper wisdom.
View feelings of discontent or being in the wrong place as your soul’s call to move forward and evolve into a newer version of yourself.
After identifying what you dislike about your current situation, flip your perspective to envision what your ideal role or job would be, as this indicates your soul’s calling.
View your current job, even if you dislike it, as ‘soul school’ – an opportunity to learn about yourself, identify what triggers you, and explore your inner workings.
Don’t abandon long-term dreams; instead, identify what small, actionable steps you can take now to move towards them, even within your current constraints.
If aspiring to a new career, like a nutritional therapist, start by reading books, applying principles to your own life, and offering help to friends (with permission) to build experience and confidence.
Integrate small activities into your daily life, even if only for five minutes, that make you feel purposeful and meaningful, allowing purpose to exist outside of your job.
Reframe all experiences, especially difficult ones, as opportunities to ‘grow through’ them, helping you evolve into the person capable of fulfilling your purpose.
In moments of fear or difficulty, practice self-reassurance by making promises to yourself, reminding yourself that you are there for yourself and will navigate the challenge.
Actively cultivate self-trust, self-belief, self-care, and fierce self-love, especially during challenging times, as these are foundational for navigating life’s uncertainties.
Consciously choose to believe that everything happening in your life, including delays or challenges, is occurring at the right time to help you get to where you need to be.
Trust your own lived experience as a guide, recognizing that personal truths are deeply understood through direct experience, not just intellectual knowledge.
Consciously choose to adopt beliefs, such as ’everything is happening as it should,’ that are empowering and helpful for your well-being, rather than those that lead to frustration.
Counter societal conditioning that prioritizes only logical and scientific explanations by also valuing and listening to your body’s wisdom and intuition.
Allow yourself to cultivate a sense of awe and wonder for aspects of life that cannot be logically explained, embracing the mystery and beauty of existence.
Consciously choose to embrace a sense of awe and wonder about being alive, rather than insisting on a purely rational, logical, and scientific explanation for everything.
Question and challenge the societal glorification of busyness, recognizing it as an ’epidemic’ that prevents presence and connection.
Shift from merely having routines to incorporating meaningful rituals into your daily life, to bring more presence and connection to your actions.
Engage with nature, such as watching sunrises or sunsets, as a practice to bring yourself into the present moment and cultivate mindfulness.
Make a conscious effort to carve out moments to spend time in nature, as it helps you connect with a greater life force energy and remember what’s truly important.
Be aware that your mind will generate numerous excuses (too busy, tired, etc.) to prevent you from engaging in self-reflection; anticipate these and commit to showing up anyway.
Set realistic expectations for new practices to avoid failure and self-criticism; start with what is genuinely achievable for you, rather than aiming for an overwhelming amount.
Consciously change the word ‘should’ to ‘could’ in your internal dialogue to create a sense of option and choice, empowering yourself rather than feeling obligated.
Intentionally prioritize yourself and your inner world by dedicating a few minutes each day to self-reflection and finding meaning, viewing it as a gift to yourself.
Keep a pen and paper handy for freestyle journaling; if you don’t know what to write, start with ‘I don’t know what’s right’ and continue, allowing insights to emerge.
Engage in simple grounding practices like taking off your shoes, placing bare feet on the earth, taking five deep breaths, and feeling the sun on your face.
Discover what self-care practices and timeframes work for you, then make a commitment to yourself to stick to them, as keeping promises to yourself builds self-trust.
Understand that your job can be a means to earn money, and your true purpose can be found outside of your professional role, such as being a parent, doing charity work, or tending a garden.
Reframe your daily activities, including how you approach your job, navigate challenges, and show up each day, as opportunities to live out your purpose.
Strive to become your authentic self, as living in alignment with who you truly are is the path to a life filled with meaning and purpose.
Serve others best by prioritizing what genuinely interests you and aligns with your authentic self, as this passion will resonate more deeply and effectively.
When consuming information, take only what resonates with you as your truth and disregard the rest, rather than trying to adopt every piece of advice.
Instead of seeking external teachers or trying to be convinced, focus on remembering and accessing the deep wisdom, knowing, and truth that already reside within you.
Live as an embodied example of truth, authenticity, honesty, and trust in your own life, as this approach can inspire others without needing to convince them.
Live as the embodiment of who you are and the life you desire, as your personal conviction will reduce the need for external validation or belief from others.
Understand that your truth is unique to you; acknowledge what works for others, but only adopt practices or beliefs that genuinely resonate and feel meaningful to you.
Regularly ask yourself if you are being fully authentic to who you are, what you desire, and what you want to express, without filtering or censoring yourself.
Understand that the benefits of spiritual or self-care practices may not be immediately obvious; their impact often becomes clear only when you stop doing them, so maintain consistency.
Regularly check in with yourself to acknowledge and celebrate what you did well each day, rather than focusing solely on perceived shortcomings.
After completing a task or effort, take a moment to acknowledge your performance, even if it’s just a simple ‘Well done, you tried your best, you showed up,’ to build self-trust.
Consciously shift your focus from what you perceive as wrong or negative to acknowledging and celebrating your achievements and positive actions.
Make a conscious effort to celebrate your achievements and acknowledge your efforts more frequently, as humans tend to under-celebrate themselves.
Understand that emotion, particularly celebration, is more effective than mere repetition in creating lasting habits, so integrate positive feelings into your habit-forming process.
Recognize that your choices about how you perceive situations shape your reality and experience, so consciously choose to look for the positive.
Give yourself permission to fully feel and honor deeper emotions like grief, loneliness, frustration, or anger, as these are powerful messengers for self-learning and growth.
View all emotions as messengers that indicate whether you are in or out of alignment with your truth and authenticity, using them as guidance rather than labeling them as good or bad.
Shift your focus from solely achieving external goals to appreciating and engaging with the process of getting there, as over-focusing on the outcome can lead to dissatisfaction.
Recognize that challenges and uncertainty are essential for personal growth and evolution, helping you develop into the person capable of fulfilling your purpose.
Be aware of roles or situations that require you to be someone inauthentic to yourself, as this creates internal conflict and moves you away from your truth.
Engage in practices like Shavasana at the end of yoga to connect with your infinite and expansive self, potentially experiencing moments of bliss and deep understanding.
Understand that rare, profound experiences of bliss or deep connection can make consistent, sometimes challenging, daily practices worthwhile and provide glimpses of deeper truth.
Practice detaching from your thoughts and the stories you tell yourself about events, recognizing that internal narratives and judgments often cause more problems than the events themselves.
Use meditation to learn to detach from the constant commentary of your thoughts and the stories you create, understanding that these are not always true representations of reality.
Consider exploring moving meditation, such as yoga, as an alternative to seated meditation, especially if the latter feels too rigid or ‘masculine’ in its approach.
Make time for regular self-check-ins to ask ‘How am I feeling today?’ even if you fear the answers, as avoiding these internal truths prevents necessary change and growth.
Be brave enough to go against societal expectations or the opinions of others when pursuing a path that aligns with your true purpose, even if it seems ‘crazy’ to them.
Be cautious of advice from people who are themselves stuck or unhappy, as their recommendations may reflect their own fears rather than your best path.
Take radical responsibility for your own life, while also allowing others to take radical responsibility for theirs, understanding you are not responsible for their happiness or problems.
Understand that you cannot fix, heal, rescue, or change anyone who does not want to be changed, regardless of your desire to help them.
Practice setting boundaries, prioritizing yourself, or loving someone from a distance when necessary, as part of taking radical responsibility for your own life.
Focus on cultivating internal self-approval rather than seeking external validation or permission from others to pursue your path.
Avoid the disempowering trap of external blame and frustration when things don’t go as planned, as this mindset prevents personal growth and acceptance.
Use reflections on death and mortality as a powerful catalyst to understand what is truly important in life and to motivate living more authentically.
If inspired by loss, make a commitment to live your life fully and pursue your dreams as a dedication to those who can no longer do so.
Use the stark reality of mortality to overcome procrastination and ‘do it tomorrow’ mentality, recognizing the urgency of living your desired life now.
Actively seek answers and truths that lie beyond societal norms, driven by an inner purpose, to learn life’s lessons without necessarily needing extreme adversity.
Pay attention to early feelings of discontent or ’niggles’ as your inner self trying to guide you, to avoid needing more extreme adversity to get your attention.
Refrain from comparing your real life to the curated highlight reels of others, especially on social media, as this often leads to unrealistic expectations and dissatisfaction.
Speak your truth authentically, understanding that your message will resonate with those who are meant to hear it, and it’s okay if it doesn’t resonate with everyone else.
Reconnect with the natural sense of awe and wonder you likely experienced as a child, recognizing the miraculous nature of existence, even if you are currently skeptical.
Cultivate a strong sense of purpose in your life, as research indicates it correlates with greater happiness, better health, and a longer lifespan.
If feeling lost, seek to connect with or believe in something greater than your individual existence, as this can provide meaning and combat feelings of despondency.
Be aware of and resist societal pressures that capitalize on feelings of inadequacy and constantly direct your attention outwards, seeking happiness or worth from external sources.
Acquire material possessions if desired, but ensure they are not the sole purpose of your happiness; cultivate an inner happiness that would remain even if all external things were lost.
If self-love feels too challenging, start by simply liking yourself, being present with yourself, showing up for yourself, and doing your best each day, recognizing that this is enough.
Understand that the most profound truths and best things in life are not learned intellectually but must be experienced firsthand.