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How to Do Less, Do it Better and Live More with Elizabeth Emens #53

Mar 13, 2019 1h 9m 27 insights
Do life’s mundane tasks like paying bills, answering emails or booking appointments feel like a whole other job? The stuff of life never ends. It piles up in junk drawers, steals our time, weighs on our minds and, if avoided for too long, can have painful consequences. We are all drowning in things to do and it is a major stressor on our bodies – impacting our health, wellbeing and the quality of our relationships.  A big part of the problem is that this “life admin” is invisible: we forget it exists, and the people around us don’t value the labour involved. Not only that, but the constant bombardment of unwanted work gets in the way of our big life goals and our self-care. This week, I talk to professor of law and author of ‘The Art of Life Admin’, Elizabeth Emens, about how we can make this work visible, better manageable and fairer. She gives some brilliant tips on how we can all steal back some time to do the things we want to and bring more calm into our lives. I hope you enjoy the conversation! Show notes available at drchatterjee.com/53 Follow me on instagram.com/drchatterjee/ Follow me on facebook.com/DrChatterjee/ Follow me on twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk
Actionable Insights

1. Recognize Invisible Life Admin

Acknowledge and name the ‘invisible office-type work’ (life admin) that fills your mind and time. Recognizing it as a distinct problem allows you to think about it, deal with it, and understand its impact on stress, well-being, and relationships.

2. Ask The ‘Admin Question’

Before pursuing any life goal (e.g., changing diet, starting a hobby), ask yourself: ‘What role does life admin play in this problem or its solution?’ This helps identify and account for the invisible administrative costs of change, preventing them from becoming an unseen drag that leads to failure.

3. Prioritize Important, Not Urgent

Protect time for important but not urgent tasks (big life goals, self-care) from the constant bombardment of urgent life admin. Urgent admin tasks frequently escalate and get in the way of achieving long-term goals and maintaining personal well-being.

4. Use Simple Paper To-Do Lists

When feeling overwhelmed by admin, use a simple paper to-do list. Many effective individuals find paper lists help manage overwhelm and more completely ‘close the loop’ on unfinished tasks, reducing mental bandwidth drain.

5. Include ‘Good Day List’

Write your ‘good day list’ (important but not urgent self-care items like meditation, exercise) at the top of your daily to-do list. This reminds you to prioritize these crucial activities, ensuring they don’t get overlooked by urgent admin tasks.

6. Deal with Requests Immediately

When possible, address small requests or tasks immediately rather than deferring them. This prevents items from ever landing on your to-do list, reducing its length and the cognitive load of unfinished tasks.

7. Block Dedicated Time for Admin

Schedule dedicated blocks of time for admin tasks. This approach can make admin less painful, more efficient, and even pleasurable, providing a sense of accomplishment.

8. Avoid Multitasking (Switch Quickly)

Minimize ‘multitasking’ for non-routine activities, as it’s actually rapid task-switching. Each switch drains focus and makes it harder to be present and effective, leading to fatigue and unsatisfactory results.

9. Make Admin Visible to Others

Actively make your admin work visible to those around you, especially in relationships. This helps others appreciate the effort involved, prevents misunderstanding and resentment, and fosters mutual support.

10. Trade Off ‘Point Person’ Admin

In relationships, recognize the burden of being the ‘point person’ for certain admin tasks and trade off responsibilities or honor the work involved. This prevents one person from being solely drained by constant interruptions and fosters mutual support.

11. Unstick ‘Sticky Admin’

When you are the ‘point person’ for a recurring admin task, involve others in the process to ‘unstick’ it. This transfers knowledge and skills, preventing the task from perpetually falling on one person and distributing the burden.

12. Use ‘No Need To Reply’ (NNR)

Add ‘NNR (no need to reply)’ to messages when a response isn’t required. This signals to the recipient that the communication loop is closed, saving both parties time and reducing email clutter.

13. Propose Default Plans

When coordinating plans, propose a default option and state that you will proceed with it unless you hear otherwise. This streamlines decision-making, reduces back-and-forth communication, and ensures plans move forward.

14. Use Saved Time Meaningfully

Intentionally use the time saved by efficient admin strategies for high-quality leisure or meaningful activities. This ensures the effort put into streamlining admin translates into a better quality of life and personal fulfillment.

15. Find Your ‘Admin Pleasures’

Identify what aspects of admin you might find pleasurable and discover your preferred modes (e.g., paper vs. tech, marathons vs. sprints). Understanding your ‘admin personality’ and preferences can make the necessary tasks more tolerable and efficient.

16. Take Admin Personalities Quiz

Take the ‘admin personalities quiz’ to understand your default settings and how you relate to admin. Understanding your admin personality can help you identify effective strategies that align with your natural tendencies and avoid those that won’t work for you.

17. Learn from Admin Personalities

Explore strategies derived from different ‘admin personalities’ (super doer, reluctant doer, admin avoider, admin denier). This allows you to adopt new approaches that might be effective for you, even if they don’t align with your primary personality.

18. Develop Admin Compassion

Cultivate compassion for yourself and others regarding the admin burden. Recognizing that everyone struggles with admin in different ways (and that socioeconomic factors impact it) fosters understanding and reduces self-judgment.

19. Recognize ‘Bombardment Admin’

Acknowledge that some admin (e.g., child-related emergencies) cannot be postponed and requires immediate attention. Recognizing this type of ‘bombardment admin’ helps manage expectations and allows for better support within relationships.

20. Deflect Certain Admin Items

Consciously choose to ‘deflect’ or decide not to do certain admin tasks. This strategy helps manage your workload by eliminating non-essential items from your responsibility.

21. Practice Gratitude for Admin

Practice gratitude for life admin tasks. It makes the invisible labor visible and appreciated, benefiting both the giver and receiver emotionally and physically.

22. Avoid Admin Financial Consequences

Actively manage life admin tasks like paying bills or refinancing mortgages. Neglecting these tasks can lead to significant financial losses (e.g., foregone savings).

23. Make Default Social Plans

Create default plans for regular social activities (e.g., ‘we’ll be at the playground at three on Saturday’ or ‘I’ll be in the pub at seven’). This reduces the admin burden of constant individual coordination and increases the likelihood that desired activities actually happen.

24. Trust Neighbors for Information

For certain local information (e.g., rubbish collection days), trust your neighbors or local community observations rather than extensive research. This can be a simple ‘avoider strategy’ to get necessary information without creating additional admin for yourself.

25. Mindful Social Media Use

Make mindful and minimalist choices about your social media use. This helps manage the influx of digital admin and protects your time and focus.

26. Empower Others with NNR

Apply strategies like NNR not just for your benefit, but to empower others by reducing their perceived obligation to respond or engage. This fosters a culture of mutual respect for time and reduces the admin burden on your network.

27. Consider Nutritional Supplement

Consider taking a nutrient-dense whole food supplement like Athletic Greens daily. This can serve as an insurance policy to ensure you meet your nutritional needs, especially if getting nutrition solely from food is not always possible.