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How to Create the Life You Were Born to Live with Peter Crone #82

Nov 6, 2019 1h 56m 22 insights
What is preventing you from living the life of your dreams? Are you waiting for the right person to come along? Will you be happy when you get a pay-rise? Or perhaps you just aren’t capable of getting what you really want? The truth is, that your perfect life is right here waiting for you to discover it. The only thing separating you from it is the dialogue that exists within your subconscious mind. Guest on this week’s podcast is writer, speaker and thought leader in human potential, Peter Crone, a.k.a The Mind Architect. Peter believes that resistance to the way life is, is not only futile, but it is the pre-curser to dis-ease both psychologically and emotionally, which can then manifest physiologically. He believes that to attain true freedom and joy, we need to release ourselves from the prison of our subconscious mind – those limiting thoughts that tell us we are not enough. When we understand that our behaviours and thoughts are a result of our subconscious programming, we can deconstruct where those limiting beliefs came from and we are able to free ourselves from them and experience true liberation. Peter demonstrates how we can deconstruct our own negative thought patterns by talking to me about some of the things that have affected me in my life. We discuss how our subconscious programming can affect our intimate relationships and question whether the Hollywood ideal really exists. This is a really powerful conversation and I really hope it helps you to find more happiness in your life.  Show notes available at drchatterjee.com/82 Follow me on instagram.com/drchatterjee/ Follow me on facebook.com/DrChatterjee/ Follow me on twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk
Actionable Insights

1. Release Limiting Subconscious Beliefs

To achieve true freedom and joy, identify and release yourself from self-limiting beliefs and subconscious programming that tell you you are not enough.

2. Deconstruct Subconscious Programming

Understand that your behaviors and thoughts stem from subconscious programming, then deconstruct the origins of these limiting beliefs to experience true liberation.

3. Prioritize Subconscious Mind Care

Prioritize addressing and understanding your subconscious mind, as neglecting it will limit your potential and prevent you from achieving true well-being.

4. Cultivate Self-Love & Acceptance

Stop seeking love and acceptance externally, as this reinforces a belief of inherent unworthiness; instead, cultivate complete self-love and acceptance for true health and success.

5. Embrace Inherent Freedom

Recognize that true freedom is your inherent birthright, and subconscious programming and behavioral adaptations are merely layers covering this innate state, which can be revealed.

6. Discover Your True Self

Engage in self-inquiry to discover your true self by stripping away compensations and external reflections, aiming to understand who you are inherently.

7. Shift from Reactive to Creative

Shift from a reactive mindset, driven by fear and protection, to a creative one, actively building an extraordinary future rather than trying to fix a past you cannot change.

8. Reframe Emotional Triggers

View emotional triggers (upset, anger, fear) as indicators of areas where you are not truly free, using them as opportunities for self-discovery and growth.

9. Practice Compassionate Listening

When interacting with others, practice listening from a place of love, compassion, and acceptance to create a safe space for them to share openly.

10. Eliminate All Judgment

Eradicate all judgment of yourself and others, as this is a fundamental step towards having a better life and improved health.

11. Cultivate Unshaken Beliefs

Cultivate a strong internal conviction in your beliefs, such that external differing views do not threaten or destabilize your sense of self.

12. Embrace Present Moment Happiness

Achieve true happiness by ceasing the active search for it and instead finding peace and contentment with your current state and circumstances.

13. Be at Peace with Reality

Cultivate an intimate relationship with reality by being at peace with ‘what is,’ even while working towards improvement, to experience freedom and peace.

14. Align Beliefs with Aspirations

To create your desired life, cultivate an internal belief system and self-perception that aligns with the person you aspire to be.

15. Redefine Relationship Roles

In relationships, recognize that your job is not to make your partner happy or complete them; instead, focus on finding your own happiness and meaning, which strengthens the relationship.

16. Slow Down Life’s Pace

Consciously slow down your pace of life to avoid constantly chasing an idealized future and instead embrace the present moment.

17. Connect with Your Breath

Regularly check in with and consciously slow down your breathing patterns, recognizing the strong correlation between breath and mind for improved well-being.

18. Practice Gentleness & Compassion

Practice gentleness and compassion towards yourself and others, understanding that everyone is doing their best within their unique conditioning and blind spots.

19. Listen Actively to Children

Practice active and present listening with your children, as it is one of the greatest gifts you can give them and fosters a deeper connection.

20. Use Precise Language

Be precise with your language, recognizing that your words create your reality and influence your ability to achieve goals and aspirations.

21. Prefer Honest Criticism

Prioritize honest criticism over dishonest compliments, understanding that your role is to share authentically, not to make everyone happy.

22. Consider Barefoot Shoes

Consider wearing Vivo Barefoot Shoes for walking, work, and exercise, as they may help improve movement and reduce back, knee, and hip pain.