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How to Achieve Anything You Want in Life with Marie Forleo (Re-release) #628

Feb 22, 2026 1h 19m 15 insights
What’s holding you back in life at the moment? Is there a problem – be it practical or emotional, to do with your health, relationships, work, finance or anything else – that seems insurmountable? Whatever your struggle, my guest on this week’s Feel Better Live More podcast believes that the solution is already within you – that you have what it takes to transform or transcend any challenge you face. She’s Marie Forleo, a US entrepreneur, writer, philanthropist and, above all, an unshakeable optimist. I caught up with Marie on the London leg of a promotional tour for her new self-help book, Everything Is Figureoutable. The title is quite a promise but after listening to what she has to say, I think you’ll be inspired to think the same way. We discuss perfectionism and why comparing ourselves unfavourably to others – so common in this age of social media – can really threaten our creativity. We also discuss the truth about excuses, the liberating difference between ‘can’t’ and ‘won’t’, and why a growth mindset is preferable to a fixed mindset if we want to make changes in our lives. Whatever it is that you want from life, I think Marie’s strategies will shift you into a more positive mindset and help you take action. This is a really energising and inspiring conversation – I hope you enjoy it!   Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/feelbetterlivemore. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com.   Thanks to our
Actionable Insights

1. Internalize Figureoutable Philosophy

Consciously internalize the ‘Everything is Figureoutable’ philosophy by understanding its three rules: all problems/dreams are figureoutable, non-figureoutable issues are facts of nature, and if you don’t care enough, find something you do. This framework helps reawaken your power and find solutions.

2. Affirm ‘Everything is Figureoutable’

Say the words ’everything is figureoutable’ out loud as often as possible throughout your day, such as when waking up or taking a walk. This practice embeds the belief into your brain, creating new neural pathways and training your mind to focus on solutions and resilience.

3. Believe You Are Not Broken

Challenge the belief that you are broken and instead consider that you simply have unhelpful ideas or habits you haven’t learned to change. This shift in perspective fosters hope, curiosity, and opens your mind to new possibilities for growth and transformation.

4. Cultivate a Growth Mindset

Cultivate a growth mindset by understanding that your talents and skills are merely starting points, and you can always improve through effort, dedication, and embracing challenges. This mindset is essential for learning and making profound changes in your life.

5. Distinguish ‘Can’t’ from ‘Won’t’

When you find yourself saying ‘I can’t’ do something, pause and consider if you actually ‘won’t’ or ‘don’t want to’ do it. This linguistic shift helps you reclaim agency and identify true priorities, moving from a powerless victim mindset to one of choice.

6. Share Your Unique Genius

Actively bring your unique dreams, gifts, products, services, or messages to life and share them with others, as your genius is unrepeatable and the world needs your unique contribution.

7. Strive for Progress, Not Perfection

Actively strive for progress rather than perfection in all areas of your life. This mindset helps overcome self-abuse, fear, and comparison, leading to increased quality of work, production, and growth through learning from setbacks.

8. Create Before You Consume

Develop the habit of creating something before you consume, such as meditating, writing, or working out before checking emails or social media. This shifts your focus from passive consumption to active creation, reducing comparison and increasing fulfillment.

9. Avoid Comparison

Actively avoid comparing yourself to others, as it is ‘creative kryptonite’ and a losing proposition that will never make you feel good. This practice helps you stay rooted in your own gifts and purpose, fostering creativity.

10. Pursue Meaningful Work

To avoid burnout and exhaustion, prioritize engaging in work that you deeply believe in and that is rooted in a sense of contribution. This quality of work makes even intense periods enjoyable and energizing.

11. Reframe Mistakes as Learning

Adopt the mantra ‘I win or I learn, but I never lose,’ reframing all ‘mistakes’ or setbacks as learning opportunities. This perspective allows you to extract growth from every experience, rather than feeling like a failure.

12. Be Mindful of Your Language

Pay close attention to the language you use to describe your life and various situations, as subtle shifts can profoundly change meaning and permeate your self-perception. Intentional language empowers you to redefine yourself and facilitate change.

13. Build a Support Community

Build a ‘figureoutable force field’ by finding at least one person who is open to this philosophy and actively support them in their dreams. This community provides exponential power, a space for brainstorming, and mutual support to overcome challenges.

14. Practice Self-Compassion

Release feelings of guilt and practice self-compassion, especially when current life priorities make you feel like you’re not ‘winning.’ This approach, like being the best mom possible, can ironically open up more energy, time, and freedom for future possibilities.

15. Experiment Before Denying

If you’re skeptical or cynical about new philosophies, try experimenting with them first before dismissing them. This approach can help you become more creative, action-oriented, and find solutions to your challenges.