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BITESIZE | Why Kindness is the Superpower You Didn’t Know You Had | Claudia Hammond #375

Jun 29, 2023 12m 25s 15 insights
“Behaving compassionately improves the lives of others, it also improves our own lives. There are measurable boosts to health, both mental and physical. Behaving kindly can act as a buffer against burnout and stress, and improve our well-being. It brings us happiness and can even help us to live longer.” Claudia Hammond Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart.  Each week I’ll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests. Today's clip is from episode 312 of the podcast with Claudia Hammond, an award-winning broadcaster, author, and psychology lecturer at the University of Sussex. In this clip, she brings us some of the psychology and neuroscience on why kindness matters and shares a simple practice we can all do to notice and create more kindness in our daily lives. Thanks to our sponsor https://www.drinkag1.com/livemore Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/feelbetterlivemore. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com.   Show notes and the full podcast are available at drchatterjee.com/312 Follow me on instagram.com/drchatterjee Follow me on facebook.com/DrChatterjee Follow me on twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk
Actionable Insights

1. Prioritize Daily Acts of Kindness

Act kindly and compassionately more often, as it measurably boosts mental and physical health, buffers against burnout and stress, increases happiness, and may contribute to a longer life.

2. Cultivate Kindness as a Skill

Actively practice and work on developing your kindness and empathy, as these are skills that can be learned and improved upon over time.

3. Practice Undivided Listening

Practice truly listening to others without distraction, making them the center of your world in that moment, as this is a profoundly kind act.

4. Read Novels for Empathy

Read novels regularly, as research shows it improves empathy by providing insight into the thoughts and feelings of diverse characters and their experiences.

5. Maintain a Kindness Diary

Keep a “kindness diary” to record instances where you were kind, thought about being kind, or witnessed/received kindness, as this increases your awareness and likelihood of performing kind acts.

6. Pre-Decide to Be Kind

Intentionally decide in advance to perform acts of kindness when specific situations arise, such as offering help to someone who looks lost, to prime yourself for readiness.

7. Perform Small Acts of Kindness

Engage in small, everyday acts of kindness, such as chatting to a stranger in a queue, because even minor gestures can significantly impact someone’s day.

8. Initiate Conversations with Strangers

Initiate conversations with strangers, as research indicates most people enjoy these interactions and do not judge negatively, making it a simple act of kindness.

9. Expand Your Kindness Repertoire

Recognize and practice kindness in its many forms, including forgiving others, including those left out, noticing unhappiness, and truly listening, not just direct help or gifts.

10. Actively Spot Kindness

Actively “twitch” or look out for acts of kindness in the world around you, as this helps counteract the natural tendency to notice negative things and reveals the world is not as bad as it seems.

11. Improve Every Situation

In every situation, consciously consider how you can leave it slightly better than when you arrived, encouraging continuous positive contributions.

12. Align Kindness with Self

Choose acts of kindness that align with your personal preferences and strengths, such as donating money to charity if volunteering is not your preference, to make the practice more sustainable and authentic.

13. Invest in Others’ Happiness

When given a choice, spend money or resources on someone else rather than yourself, as research shows this leads to a better mood and higher well-being.

14. Pre-Commit to Heroic Action

Decide in advance that you will step forward and act heroically if a situation arises where you can save a life or perform a significant kind act, as such opportunities may arise a few times in a lifetime.

15. Daily Gut Health Supplement

Consider incorporating AG1, a daily health drink, into your routine to support digestion and enrich your gut microbiome with beneficial bacteria.