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BITESIZE | The Surprising Truth About Happiness | Professor Laurie Santos #255

Apr 7, 2022 15m 48s 10 insights
We all want to be happy, but what truly brings us happiness is often not what we think. Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart.  Each week I’ll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests.   Today’s clip is from episode 151 of the podcast with Laurie Santos, Professor of Psychology at Yale University. In this clip, Laurie explains why our happiness is so important for our health, our wellbeing and our longevity, and she shares the results of some surprising research that could help us live a happier life. Thanks to our sponsor http://www.athleticgreens.com/livemore Order Dr Chatterjee's new book Happy Mind, Happy Life: UK version: https://amzn.to/304opgJ US & Canada version: https://amzn.to/3DRxjgp Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/3oAKmxi. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com.   Show notes and the full podcast are available at drchatterjee.com/151 Follow me on instagram.com/drchatterjee Follow me on facebook.com/DrChatterjee Follow me on twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk
Actionable Insights

1. Prioritize Social Connection

Actively improve your social connections, including making new ones and talking to strangers, as strong social ties are a necessary condition for high happiness and universally boost well-being.

2. Cultivate Happiness for Health

Actively cultivate happiness and positive emotions, as research shows these states directly improve immune function, physical health, and longevity, and facilitate healthier lifestyle choices.

3. Daily Gratitude Practice

Engage in a daily gratitude practice, such as scribbling down three to five things you are grateful for each night, as this simple act can significantly boost your well-being in as little as two weeks.

4. Express Gratitude Directly

Actively express your gratitude to others, particularly those you’ve intended to thank, as this practice can significantly boost your own well-being for over a month and strengthen social bonds.

5. Challenge Intuitions on Happiness

Recognize that your mind often misleads you about what truly brings happiness; material possessions or changing circumstances typically provide only fleeting joy, not lasting well-being.

6. Intentionally Build Social Connection

Actively and intentionally seek out opportunities to build social connections, as these interactions no longer occur as naturally in modern life but are crucial for happiness.

7. Talk to Strangers

Challenge your intuition by actively engaging in conversations with strangers, such as on your commute or with service staff, as research shows these interactions significantly boost happiness and well-being.

8. Schedule Present Social Time

Schedule dedicated time to genuinely talk with someone, ensuring you are fully present by shutting off screens and putting your phone away to foster meaningful connection.

9. Help Others Actively

Actively look for ways to help others, such as donating money, texting a friend in need, or doing a kind deed for someone in your household, to foster an ‘other-oriented’ mindset.

10. Practice Present Gratitude

Take a moment to identify one thing you are currently grateful for, fully notice it, and stay present with that feeling, potentially integrating broader mindfulness practices to boost well-being.