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BITESIZE | The Simple Habit That Can Transform Your Life | Robert Greene #445

Apr 18, 2024 15m 24s 8 insights
So many of us struggle to make change in our lives, and each of us has our own journey ahead of us, but, as today’s guest highlights, life is short; all of us have less time than we think to make the changes we want to make. Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart. Each week I’ll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests. Today’s clip is from episode 320 of the podcast with best-selling author and speaker, Robert Greene. In this clip he shares how meditation can help us gain a better understanding of who we really are, and why self awareness is key to creating lasting change in our lives. Thanks to our sponsor https://www.drinkag1.com/livemore Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/feelbetterlivemore. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com. Show notes and the full podcast are available at drchatterjee.com/320
Actionable Insights

1. Cultivate Urgency for Change

Generate intense emotional urgency and desperation, seeing time as limited, to overcome inertia and make significant personal changes. This ‘death ground strategy’ is presented as the most important lesson for human nature to drive motivation.

2. Cultivate Deep Self-Awareness

Spend quality time introspecting on your desires, needs, and behavioral patterns to understand why you act certain ways and why you fall into specific patterns. This deep self-understanding is crucial for creating lasting and meaningful change in your life.

3. Daily Meditation for Awareness

Practice meditation daily, ideally every morning, to cultivate a high level of self-awareness by observing your thoughts, doubts, and insecurities. This practice helps you become incredibly sensitive and present to who you are, enabling you to alter negative feelings and behaviors.

4. Daily Intentional Solitude

Incorporate a daily practice of intentional solitude, such as meditation or other forms, to ’take the pulse on your own life.’ This allows for self-reflection and a better understanding of your current emotional state and tendencies.

5. Pre-empt Emotional Reactions

When you notice you’re not at your calmest, make a mental note to be aware of this before interacting with others. This self-awareness allows you to take a ‘half-step back’ in the moment and choose not to react impulsively, saving you from drama and turmoil.

6. Elevate Your Perspective

Train yourself to have a degree of detachment from current events by imagining how they will appear a year from now. This elevated perspective helps you recognize the triviality of present issues, preventing you from getting sucked into negative energy.

7. Acknowledge Your Negative Qualities

Confront and come to terms with your own negative qualities, such as self-absorption, aggression, or irrationality, even if it’s unpleasant. This transparency and honesty about your tendencies are essential for making meaningful changes and developing empathy.

8. Daily Gut Health Supplement

Consider taking AG1 daily, as it is a health drink that supports digestion and contains five strains of gut bacteria, which have been shown to enrich the gut microbiome. It also provides plant-based compounds that act as food sources for beneficial bacteria.