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BITESIZE | How to Rewrite Your Own Life Story | John McAvoy #361

May 11, 2023 15m 6s 14 insights
CAUTION: This episode contains themes of an adult nature. Is there a change you’d like to make in your life? Something you’re desperate to overcome, but can’t see how? Or a goal you’re scared to aim for, because it feels too far off? Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart. Each week I’ll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests. Today’s clip is from episode 210 of the podcast with endurance athlete and author, the inspirational John McAvoy.   John was born into a notorious crime family and served 10 years in prison for armed robbery.   Since then, he has achieved incredible self-transformation and, in this clip, John shares why we all have the power to rewrite our own life story. Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/feelbetterlivemore. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com. Show notes and the full podcast are available at drchatterjee.com/210 Follow me on instagram.com/drchatterjee Follow me on facebook.com/DrChatterjee Follow me on twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk
Actionable Insights

1. Act Now, Avoid Regret

Recognize that life is short and tomorrow is not guaranteed; therefore, take action, step out of your comfort zone, and make changes (e.g., if you dislike your job) to avoid future regrets of “what if” or “if only.”

2. Practice Forgiveness and Release Resentment

Develop the challenging but crucial skill of forgiveness and actively let go of resentment, anger, and hate, as these negative emotions are toxic to your soul, cause personal suffering, and hinder growth.

3. Focus on Controllables

Direct your emotional energy and cognitive reserve towards the few things you can control, such as your actions, choices, what you read, and how you exercise, rather than wasting it on circumstances beyond your influence.

4. Accept Personal Ownership

Accept full ownership of the decisions you have made and the situations you find yourself in, rather than blaming external factors, as this is crucial for personal growth and moving forward.

5. Prioritize Quality of Life

Be willing to make financial sacrifices or take a step back in income if it leads to an exponentially improved quality of life, focusing on what truly brings you happiness and contentment.

6. Embrace Incremental Progress

Understand that significant change and improvement come from consistent, tiny, incremental steps taken every day over time, rather than expecting immediate transformation, and trust that these small efforts accumulate into substantial progress.

7. Cultivate Consistency and Discipline

Recognize that achieving goals requires consistent, day-in-day-out discipline and focus, not just the highlight reel seen on social media, and maintain belief in yourself and your ability to achieve what you set out to do.

8. View Setbacks as Growth

Understand that setbacks, taking two steps back, or needing to reset and pause are natural parts of the journey towards progress and growth, and not a reason to give up.

9. Cultivate Daily Appreciation

Actively cultivate appreciation for every day you are alive, your freedom, the experiences you have, and the opportunity to interact with incredible human beings, as this can transform your perception of the world from dark to colorful.

10. Gain Perspective from Hardship

Reflect on past difficult experiences, especially those where you felt you had nothing or were in a “dark place,” to gain perspective on current challenges and appreciate your present circumstances more deeply.

11. Connect with Nature

Seek out and spend time in natural environments that resonate with you, as connecting with nature can have a profound and powerful impact on your well-being, providing a sense of home and spiritual connection.

12. Cultivate an Open Mindset

Maintain an open mindset to trying new things, meeting diverse people, visiting different places, and experiencing various cultures, as this fosters growth and enriches your life journey.

13. Live to Lift Others Up

Find motivation in lifting others up and making their existence on the planet a little better, as this can provide a deep sense of purpose and contentment.

14. Try AG1 Daily Health Drink

Consider trying AG1, a daily health drink that supports digestion and gut microbiome, especially during winter; first-time subscribers can receive a free flavor sampler, AGZ sampler, vitamin D3 and K2, and a welcome kit.