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BITESIZE | How to Live Your Best Life | Jake Humphrey #339

Feb 24, 2023 15m 11s 34 insights
CAUTION: This podcast contains swearing  Our mindset is so important for living a happier, healthier life. We can all learn from unwelcome challenges and, more often than not, become better as a result of them.  Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart.  Each week I’ll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests. Today’s clip is from episode 224 of the podcast with TV presenter and fellow podcast host Jake Humphrey. Jake went from failing his A level exams to becoming one of the UK’s best known TV presenters. In this clip, he explains why happiness comes from the stories we tell ourselves and why failure is an important part of the journey to success. Thanks to our sponsor http://www.athleticgreens.com/livemore Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/feelbetterlivemore. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com. Show notes and the full podcast are available at drchatterjee.com/224 Follow me on instagram.com/drchatterjee Follow me on facebook.com/DrChatterjee Follow me on twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk
Actionable Insights

1. Reframe Failure as Learning

Reframe perceived difficulties, inadequacies, or failures as learning opportunities, which is described as the single biggest high-performance change one can make.

2. Own Your Reactions

Take 100% responsibility for your reactions to life’s events, even if they are not your fault, as this mindset allows for personal growth and control over your happiness.

3. Choose Your Happiness Narrative

Actively choose to interpret events with a story that promotes happiness, calmness, and contentment, as the narrative you apply to truth determines your happiness.

4. Rewrite Negative Stories Positively

When facing issues, consciously rewrite the negative stories your brain creates into positive ones and choose to believe them, rather than allowing your brain to trick you into negativity.

5. Expect Failure, Persist Through It

Approach new endeavors with the expectation of encountering failure, which will prevent derailment and allow you to persist, knowing that positive outcomes often follow difficult periods.

6. View Failure as a Comma

Persist in your efforts and continue trying new things, viewing failure not as an end but as a temporary pause or a step in the journey.

7. Practice Self-Compassion

Practice self-compassion and be kind to yourself, as this foundational act opens the door to exploration and growth.

8. Control Your Mindset

Actively take control of your mindset, as this is where personal growth and happiness originate.

9. Embrace Full Responsibility Daily

Start each day by committing to 100% responsibility for all aspects of your life, regardless of fault or perceived control, to empower yourself towards happiness and success.

10. Score Likelihood to Stop Catastrophizing

To combat catastrophizing, assign a likelihood score (e.g., 1-10) to potential negative outcomes, which helps to rationally assess the probability and reduce negative spirals.

11. Cultivate a Positive Mindset

Actively choose to think positively and explore a positive mindset, rather than anticipating negative outcomes, to see where this approach leads.

12. Make Positive Thinking a Habit

Practice positive thinking consistently, as it will eventually develop into a habit, making it easier to maintain a positive outlook.

13. Find Freedom Through Failure

Embrace the understanding that failure is not a negative outcome to gain the freedom to pursue new opportunities and challenges that you might otherwise avoid.

14. Seek Opportunities, Take Risks

Actively seek out opportunities and take calculated risks, even with limited resources, once you’ve reframed your understanding of failure.

15. Overcome Fear, Pursue Career Growth

Overcome the fear of failure to pursue career advancements or new roles, expressing your desire to take on challenges.

16. Embrace a Life of Exploration

Embrace a life of exploration, as it naturally leads to continuous growth and positivity.

17. Find Daily Good

Make a conscious effort to identify and appreciate positive aspects in each day.

18. Make Your Bed Daily

Start your day by making your bed, establishing a small positive routine.

19. Positive Morning Greetings for Kids

Ensure your first interaction with your children each day is positive, setting a good tone.

20. Communicate to Resolve Issues

Address long-standing issues by initiating direct communication, especially with challenging individuals like a boss, to resolve problems.

21. Speak Positively to Others

Speak positively to others and observe if this positive communication is reciprocated.

22. Smile at Everyone

Offer a smile to everyone you encounter as a simple way to bring positivity into your life.

23. Ask Questions, Learn From Everyone

Engage with everyone you meet by asking questions, recognizing that each person possesses unique knowledge from which you can learn.

24. Simple Positivity Practices

Implement simple practices to actively infuse happiness and positivity into your daily life.

25. Stop Self-Inflicted Negativity

Avoid self-deprecating thoughts and actions, as life is already challenging enough without adding self-inflicted negativity.

26. Expect Good Things Ahead

Cultivate the belief that good things are imminent, as the power lies in this positive expectation, which can help you navigate bad days by anticipating better ones.

27. Affirm Your Potential

Affirm your capacity for happiness, success, growth, learning, and exploration, as failing to do so relinquishes control over your potential.

28. Embrace Training Failure for Growth

View ‘failure’ in contexts like physical training (lifting to failure) as a positive step towards growth and improvement, not as a reason for self-criticism.

29. Change Failure Perception

Change your perception of failure from a negative to a positive, understanding it as a necessary part of growth and success.

30. Seek Growth in Failure

Recognize that growth occurs through failure, and therefore, failure should be seen as a positive and essential part of development.

31. Take AG1 Daily

Consider taking AG1 daily for gut health, as it contains beneficial bacteria and plant-based compounds that support the gut microbiome.

32. Share Positive Content

Share valuable content, like this podcast episode, with friends and family to spread positivity.

33. Subscribe to Friday Five Email

Subscribe to the ‘Friday Five’ email for weekly doses of positivity, including articles, books, quotes, and research, to get ready for the weekend.

34. Subscribe to the Podcast

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