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BITESIZE | Discover Your True Self for Peace and Purpose | Kilian Jornet #207

Oct 7, 2021 12m 11s 19 insights
When was the last time you were truly alone? When we take some time away from the storm of information we receive every day, the benefits can be transformative.   Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart. Each week I’ll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests.   Today’s clip is from episode 66 of the podcast with mountain runner and global icon, Kilian Jornet.   One of the incredible feats Kilian has achieved is climbing Everest twice in one week, and in this clip, he explains why we need to spend time alone in order to connect with ourselves and live our best lives. Thanks to our sponsor http://www.athleticgreens.com/livemore Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/3oAKmxi. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com. Show notes and the full podcast are available at drchatterjee.com/66 Follow me on instagram.com/drchatterjee Follow me on facebook.com/DrChatterjee Follow me on twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk
Actionable Insights

1. Discover Personal Happiness

Dedicate time to self-reflection and actively cut yourself off from external influences to discover what genuinely makes you happy, rather than pursuing what others value. This is crucial for leading a happy and fulfilled life.

2. Embrace Failure as Learning

Embrace and valorize failure as a crucial learning opportunity, understanding that it’s often the biggest catalyst for growth. Accept that some doors must close, and that getting lost or hurt are necessary parts of achieving meaningful things.

3. Gain Perspective on Problems

When confronted with an overwhelming problem, step back and gain perspective by distancing yourself from the immediate challenge. This allows you to see the “whole picture,” identify easier paths, rationalize what’s truly important, and realize the problem might not be as big as it initially appeared.

4. Focus on Personal Limits

Shift your focus from beating others to pushing your own limits and achieving your personal best. Use competition and other participants as tools to help you drive yourself further, rather than as the primary goal.

5. Practice Present Moment Focus

Engage in activities that demand intense focus and presence, especially those with significant consequences for error. This practice forces you into the present moment, effectively acting as a form of meditation by eliminating thoughts of past or future.

6. Clarify Priorities Alone

Spend time in nature or engage in activities like long-distance running to be with yourself. This helps simplify complex problems and clarify your true priorities by removing the “storm of information.”

7. Resist Filling Silence

Resist the urge to fill every moment of silence or downtime with distractions like music, social media, emails, or news. Allow yourself to be alone with your thoughts to avoid being afraid of solitude and to foster self-reflection.

8. Embrace Moments of Silence

Actively seek out and embrace moments of silence, even for just five minutes, to listen to natural sounds like wind or birds. This practice helps counteract the societal erosion of downtime and silence, fostering presence.

9. Connect with Nature Daily

Regularly seek out nature, even if it’s just a local park, for a few minutes. Use this time to connect with your primal self by listening to natural sounds like birds, the ocean, or the wind.

10. Push Physical Limits

Push your body to its limits through activities like long-distance running. This helps you discover your true self by stripping away daily masks and revealing who you are when exhausted.

11. Seek Humbling Nature Experiences

Seek experiences that make you feel incredibly small in the vastness of nature, such as being alone in a huge mountain. This perspective can evoke profound feelings and a sense of freedom.

12. Diminish Achievement Importance

Cultivate a perspective that diminishes the importance of temporary achievements or titles (e.g., “world champion”) by recognizing their insignificance in the grand scheme. This realization can provide immense freedom to pursue what truly matters to you.

13. Reframe Worst-Case Scenarios

When facing a daunting goal or challenge, reframe your perspective by considering the worst possible outcome. Often, the worst-case scenario (e.g., losing a race) is not as catastrophic as it initially seems, which can reduce anxiety.

14. Engage in Solitary Activities

Engage in activities that require you to be alone and focus internally, such as running or other solitary pursuits. This allows you to process the overwhelming daily information, listen to your body, and connect with yourself.

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