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Qualy #38 - Finding meaning in struggle and why we are less happy than ever (David Foster Wallace)

Oct 9, 2019 7m 16s 4 insights
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Actionable Insights

1. Re-evaluate Self-Worth’s Foundation

Reflect on what you worship or where you derive your self-worth, as placing it in external ‘gods’ like money, power, physical allure, or intellect can lead to perpetual dissatisfaction and feelings of fraudulence.

2. Challenge Societal Success Metrics

Critically examine and challenge the cultural criteria for a successful and happy life (e.g., maximum pleasure, money, fame), as blindly pursuing these can lead to an ’empty and low calorie’ existence and profound sadness.

3. Reflect on True Happiness

Regularly reflect on your own level of happiness and compare it against your perceived advantages or societal metrics of success to identify disconnects between external achievements and internal well-being.

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