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Are we too busy to pay attention to life?

Mar 30, 2016 45m 26s 22 insights
An inbetweenisode of sorts where Jeff Annello and I discuss whether we're too busy to pay attention to life - on whether we're too busy to live. If you want more of these let me know #tkp on twitter.   Go Premium: Members get early access, ad-free episodes, hand-edited transcripts, searchable transcripts, member-only episodes, and more. Sign up at: https://fs.blog/membership/   Every Sunday our newsletter shares timeless insights and ideas that you can use at work and home. Add it to your inbox: https://fs.blog/newsletter/   Follow Shane on Twitter at: https://twitter.com/ShaneAParrish
Actionable Insights

1. Practice Single-Tasking & Batch Work

To do your best work, focus on one task at a time and group similar tasks together (e.g., all internet-related activities) into specific time blocks.

2. Capture Internet Distractions for Later

When engaged in focused work, keep a physical pad to write down any impulses to go online; address these distractions in a batch later to avoid constant interruption.

3. Critically Weigh Tool Pros and Cons

Evaluate technology and social media by considering both their benefits and their potential detriments, recognizing that some tools might be net negative for your well-being.

4. Understand Your Circle of Competence

Differentiate between deep understanding (“Planck knowledge”) and surface-level knowledge (“chauffeur knowledge”), and develop clear strategies for making decisions when operating outside your expertise.

5. Practice Saying “I Don’t Know”

Be willing to admit when you lack deep knowledge on a topic, especially in professional contexts where ego might compel you to pretend otherwise, to avoid giving nonsensical answers.

6. Enjoy Experiences Without External Validation

Develop a mental strategy to appreciate experiences for their own sake, rather than feeling the need to document them or seek fulfillment from others’ reactions.

7. Choose a Social Media Detachment Strategy

Honestly assess your relationship with social media and select a suitable detachment strategy, whether it’s quitting cold turkey, gradually reducing usage, or implementing strict controls.

8. Consider “All In or All Out”

If you find it impossible to use certain social media platforms in a balanced or judicious way, consider completely disconnecting from them rather than attempting moderation.

9. Limit Social Media Access Points

Remove social media apps from your phone and tablet, restricting access to only a computer, to control impulses and limit when and where you engage with these tools.

10. Avoid Immediate Phone Engagement

Do not check email, text messages, or social media immediately after waking up, as this can lead to constant brain engagement and distraction throughout the entire day.

11. Curate Social Media Follows

Limit the number of people you follow on platforms like Twitter to a small, well-curated group to ensure you only receive information from sources you are genuinely interested in.

12. Disconnect from Destructive Social Media

Consider not using platforms like Facebook and Instagram if they act as “envy generators” and detract significantly from your happiness.

13. Prepare for Social Pushback

Understand that when you disconnect from network tools like social media, your network will notice and may react with questions or resentment; prepare for this “homeostatic response.”

14. Set Time Limits for Social Media

Define a clear purpose for using social media and allocate a specific, short amount of time (e.g., 10 minutes for a Twitter feed) to consume content, then cut it off.

15. Batch Internet Tasks in Content Creation

When writing or creating content, complete all core thoughts and drafting without any internet lookups or linking, then perform all internet-related tasks in a single batch at the end.

16. Tailor Strategies to Your Life Context

Recognize that there’s no universal formula for managing busyness and technology; adapt general ideas and strategies to fit the unique context and demands of your own life.

17. Adapt External Ideas to Your Context

When learning from others, thoroughly understand their ideas, discern when and where they apply, and then specifically evaluate how they impact and can be integrated into your own life.

18. Add Friction to Communication Channels

If overwhelmed by easy communication, intentionally introduce friction (e.g., asking people to mail physical documents instead of emailing) to filter out low-value communications that are easy for senders but costly for you.

19. Summarize Communications for Recipients

When sending information, especially to superiors, provide a concise one or two-sentence summary of the gist, allowing the recipient to quickly grasp the core message and save time.

20. Leaders Must Improve Communication Culture

In organizations, leaders need to actively intervene to improve communication culture, potentially by punishing non-compliance, rather than expecting organic improvement, as current trends encourage more frictionless but less focused communication.

21. Prioritize High Signal-to-Noise Content

When disseminating information or using social media, aim for an incredibly high signal-to-noise ratio out of respect for your audience’s attention and to avoid contributing to information overload.

22. Rely on Filtered Information for News

Instead of actively seeking news, curate your social media feeds with a small number of trusted sources, trusting that important information will find its way to you without constant active searching.