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You can be happier at work — here's how from Fixable

Oct 28, 2024 34m 39s 15 insights
<p>We're bringing you an episode of <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fixable/id1677016372">Fixable</a>, where Laurie joined Frances Frei and Anne Morriss to discuss whether you can make yourself happier at work. They talk about the concept of time famine, why you need a best friend at work, and where your employer is responsible for your wellbeing. Their conversation will show you how to turn your workplace into your happy place.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
Actionable Insights

1. Prioritize Personal Happiness at Work

Focus on increasing your own happiness at work because happier workers perform better, are more innovative, and achieve greater career success, including higher salaries and promotions.

2. Practice Present Moment Awareness

Strive to be in flow and present in whatever you are doing, rather than ruminating about the past or worrying about the future, to improve overall well-being.

3. Job Crafting: Infuse Strengths

Actively modify your job tasks and relationships to align with your personal signature strengths and values, which can increase job satisfaction and make your work feel more like a calling.

4. Intentionally Connect with Coworkers

Make a conscious effort to build connections with colleagues, as a strong sense of belonging and having friends at work significantly predicts happiness and better performance.

5. Engage in Deeper Conversations

Move beyond surface-level topics and engage in more personal conversations about feelings, values, and hobbies to foster closer connections and a stronger sense of belonging with colleagues.

6. Ask Coworkers for Help

Overcome the fear of asking for help from coworkers, as it allows them to feel needed, increases their positive emotion, and ultimately strengthens your connection with them.

7. Embrace Vulnerability for Connection

Allow yourself to show occasional vulnerability and express gratitude for help received, as this “beautiful mess effect” can foster deeper connections with others rather than making you seem less capable.

8. Improve Your Mood to Help Others

Recognize that your positive mood is contagious and can uplift your team members, making your personal happiness a mechanism for caring for others in the workplace.

9. Boost Mood Before Tricky Tasks

Intentionally put yourself in a good mood, such as by watching silly videos, before tackling challenging tasks to foster more innovative problem-solving.

10. Experiment to Find Your Sweet Spot

When given general advice, experiment with it yourself to discover what works best for your individual needs and preferences, rather than blindly following universal prescriptions.

11. Maintain a “Delights” List

Keep a personal list of “delights” – small or large things in the world that bring you joy and make you feel grateful – to regularly revisit and boost your happiness.

12. Leaders: Prioritize Belonging & Mattering

As a leader, intentionally focus on fostering a culture where employees feel a strong sense of belonging, believe their work matters, and feel they matter to their colleagues, as these are the biggest predictors of happiness and company success.

13. Foster Shared Sacrifice Culture

During tough times, implement shared sacrifices across all levels of the company, rather than layoffs, to foster a strong sense of belonging, meaning, and collective care among employees.

14. Hire Friends to Build Belonging

Consider recruiting friends together for teams or organizations, as this strategy instantly creates a sense of belonging and can model positive social connections for other colleagues.

15. Create Personal Game Day Rituals

Establish a specific routine for enjoyable events, like telling family members the schedule, setting up a comfortable viewing space with elevated feet, specific snacks (apple juice and pretzels), and ensuring personal space, to enhance the experience.