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Tame Those Devices: 10 Tips to Achieve Digital Balance

Apr 29, 2024 39m 24s 23 insights
<p>Technology is amazing! We can make video calls, find facts in an instant and watch movies on our phones. We take all this for granted, but have we let our screens and devices take over too much of our lives? </p> <p>To mark Digital Wellness Day on May 3, we hear from Amy Blankson (author and "chief evangelist" at the <a href="https://www.digitalwellnessinstitute.com/">Digital Wellness Institute</a>) about her ten tips to tame our devices at home and in the workplace. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
Actionable Insights

1. Guesstimate Screen Time & Values

Before checking your phone’s screen time, guesstimate your online usage and top three apps, then reflect on your top three life values. Comparing your guesses to actual data creates awareness and inspires intentional change in your digital habits.

2. Implement the ‘Really Rule’

Before picking up your phone or engaging with an app, ask yourself, ‘Do I really need to do this?’ This gut check helps you determine if the action is truly necessary or the best use of your time, preventing excessive digital engagement.

3. Hide Phone from Sight

Simply placing your phone out of your direct line of sight (e.g., behind a laptop, in a pocket, or a bag) can reclaim 10% of your brain power. This improves attention, focus, and connection to the task or person at hand by reducing the urge to check for notifications.

4. Adopt Screen-Free Mornings

Start your day with a screen-free morning practice, even if just for five minutes, to avoid immediately engaging with notifications. This allows you to control the course of your day and cultivate mindfulness before reacting to external demands.

5. Set ‘Invisible Fences’

Establish digital boundaries, or ‘invisible fences,’ for yourself and clearly communicate them to others (e.g., a sign on an office door, an email footer). This helps train those around you to respect your availability and protects your personal and mental space.

6. Beware ‘Bottomless Bowl’ Apps

Recognize that many apps are designed with a ‘bottomless bowl’ feature to encourage endless scrolling without a natural stopping point. For these apps, be more intentional and self-disciplined about setting personal boundaries to avoid getting excessively drawn in.

7. Set Self-Imposed Screen Limits

Implement filters or screen limits on your devices or specific apps for yourself, similar to those used for children. This creates automatic breaks and prevents excessive usage, especially for highly engaging activities like gaming.

8. Use Grayscale Mode

Switch your phone to grayscale mode to remove all color, flashing lights, and potentially sounds from your screen. This reduces visual stimulation, making the device less engaging and helping to break addictive usage patterns.

9. Employ Stopping Cues for Work

Utilize visual or auditory stopping cues, such as a timer app (e.g., Pomodoro technique, Insight Timer), to structure your work sessions. This signals when to focus deeply and when to take a break, boosting productivity by alternating between intense work and rest.

10. Optimize Screen Ergonomics

Adjust your screen height so it is at your direct line of sight, using tools like a stack of books for a laptop or a height-adjustable desk. This practice is crucial for improving posture and significantly reducing back and neck pain caused by prolonged screen use.

11. Schedule Screen Fatigue Breaks

Proactively plan short breaks between different screen activities for yourself and others when scheduling meetings. This helps combat screen fatigue, which can manifest as irritability, headaches, and reduced focus, preventing burnout.

12. Engage in Manual Breaks

When experiencing screen fatigue or rising frustration, step away from your computer and engage in a manual activity. This could be washing dishes, folding laundry, taking a short walk, or briefly chatting with a colleague, providing a mental and physical change of scenery.

13. Offer ‘Walk and Talk’ Meetings

Create a ‘walk and talk’ option on your calendar for meetings, encouraging colleagues to step away from their desks and screens. This allows for physical activity and a change of environment during discussions, combating screen fatigue.

14. Stop Phone Snubbing (Phubbing)

Actively avoid ‘phubbing’ (phone snubbing) by keeping your phone out of sight during conversations with others. This ensures you remain present and connected, preventing interruptions that diminish the quality of social interaction.

15. Prioritize Screen-Free Socializing

Actively seek out and engage in screen-free social activities such as playing board games, outdoor games, making art or music, cooking, or simply being present with others. This helps foster deeper in-person connections away from digital distractions.

16. Maintain Screen-Free Activity List

Write down a list of enjoyable screen-free activities and keep it accessible. This ‘go-to’ list provides ready alternatives when you’re unsure what to do, helping you choose non-digital engagement over screen time.

17. Reduce Blue Light at Night

If you keep your phone in the bedroom, adjust its settings to decrease the amount of blue light emitted and reduce screen brightness. This minimizes disruption to your circadian rhythms, making it easier to fall asleep and improve sleep quality.

18. Tech-Enabled Happiness Habits

Leverage technology to support positive habits like journaling (e.g., iPhone Journal app), gratitude (e.g., Gratitude app), acts of kindness (e.g., sending supportive texts), meditation (e.g., Headspace), and exercise (e.g., fitness trackers). Choose methods that work best for you to stick with them over time.

19. Establish Work Digital Boundaries

Initiate conversations at work to establish and communicate your digital boundaries, especially with senior colleagues. This ensures your boundaries are understood and respected, preventing an ‘always-on’ work culture that leads to burnout.

20. Set Email Availability Footers

Add a footer to your work emails that specifies your response availability (e.g., ‘I do not respond to messages on the weekend, but I look forward to getting back to you on Monday’). This manages expectations for colleagues and protects your digital space.

21. Develop Digital Wellness Mantra

Cultivate a personal mantra (e.g., ‘I want to be more mindful,’ ‘I want to be more digitally well’) to serve as an internal ‘invisible fence.’ This mental tool helps you stay on task and maintain digital balance through self-control.

22. Integrate Socials into Virtual Meetings

Weave social connection elements into virtual meetings by starting with brief chat time, a short meditation or reflection, calling out names in chat, using emojis, and ending with gratitudes. This fosters belonging and engagement, enhancing remote work interactions.

23. Inquire About Colleagues’ Lives

Make a conscious effort to ask colleagues how they are doing and show genuine interest in their personal lives, even in virtual work settings. This simple act builds social connection and belonging, which are vital for happiness at work.