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How to Tame Stress

Jun 17, 2024 37m 16s 8 insights
<p>Dr Laurie is stressed, and it's harming her health. Constant worry and stress is bad for our bodies and our minds, but how can we break the cycle and relax? It turns out scientists have learned a lot from one of America's most stressed-out communities - caregivers.  </p> <p>Hollywood star Steve Guttenberg talks about the toughest chapter of his life - caring for his dying dad - and Dr Elissa Epel explains why some caregivers suffer badly from stress, while others seem to find ways to live with the awful situation they find themselves in daily.  </p> <p>And we find out how stress can be tamed and turned to our advantage with David Yeager.</p> <p><em>Further reading:</em></p> <p><em>David Yeager</em> - <em>10 to 25. The Science of Motivating Young People: A Groundbreaking Approach to Leading the Next Generation And Making Your Own Life Easier</em></p> <p><em>Steve Guttenberg - Time to Thank: Caregiving for My Hero</em>.</p> <p><em>Dr Elissa Epel - The Stress Prescription: Seven Days to More Joy and Ease</em>. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
Actionable Insights

1. Reframe Stress Mindset

Consciously shift your perception of stress from a debilitating force to an enhancing one, viewing physical symptoms (like a racing heart) as your body preparing you to perform better. Consistently apply this mindset across various stressful situations to build long-term resilience and reduce cortisol levels.

2. Practice Radical Acceptance

Accept what you cannot control in stressful situations, focusing instead on your own response and showing compassion or a loving presence. This prevents a chronically stressed state of striving against a brick wall and helps maintain a healthier biological state.

3. Incorporate Hormetic Stress

Engage in short, moderate bursts of physical exercise (3-5 times a week) to create positive hormetic stress, which strengthens your nervous system, builds biological resistance, and can slow or reverse the effects of inflammation and telomere shortening.

4. Journal Your Stressors

Take time to journal about everything that bothers, worries, or pressures you without editing or censoring. This practice helps you step back, reflect on your burden, identify sources of unnecessary stress, and break daily stress routines.

5. Cultivate Gratitude

Actively practice gratitude by remembering and acknowledging the blessings and fortunate aspects of your life, even during difficult times. Research shows that gratitude is a powerful tool for tackling stress and improving well-being.

6. Re-evaluate Self-Care Routines

Take stock of neglected self-care practices, such as sleep, food, and time with friends, to identify areas where you can regain control and improve your well-being. This helps counteract the negative effects of chronic stress.

7. Identify Stress Triggers

Pay attention to both external factors (e.g., major life changes, relationship troubles, financial worries) and internal factors (e.g., self-criticism, unrealistic expectations, being too busy) that trigger your stress response. Understanding these factors is the first step toward managing them.

8. Caregivers: Prioritize Self-Care

If you are a caregiver, actively prioritize your own self-care, including exercise and sleep, despite the immense challenges and demands of the role. Neglecting self-care can lead to severe health consequences, including increased mortality risk and slower wound healing.