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Happiness Lessons of The Ancients: The Torah

Apr 5, 2021 27m 57s 14 insights
<p>Sarah Hurwitz grew up thinking there was little the great texts of Judaism could teach her - she even hatched a plot to get out of Hebrew school. But in adulthood she discovered that The Torah contains instructions to act with gratitude, kindness and solidarity that all chime with the latest happiness research.  </p><p>Sarah is author of <em>Here All Along: Finding Meaning, Spirituality, and a Deeper Connection to Life in Judaism (After Finally Choosing to Look There</em>).</p><p> </p> Learn more about your ad-choices at <a href="https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com">https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com</a><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
Actionable Insights

1. Prioritize Actions Over Beliefs

Focus on what you do and how you act towards others, rather than solely on what you believe, as actions are central to living a meaningful life and strengthening character.

2. Act Even Without Feeling

Perform kind acts and show up for others even when you don’t initially feel like it, because the action itself can often generate positive feelings and reinforce good character.

3. Practice Constant Gratitude

Cultivate gratitude throughout your day, starting immediately upon waking by being thankful for being alive, and extending to appreciating the proper functioning of your body and other blessings.

4. Cultivate Awe & Wonder

Actively seek and notice the grandeur of nature and the intricate beauty in small, everyday things around you, fostering a sense of ‘radical amazement’ to combat a ’numb, checked out’ feeling.

5. Adopt Non-Indifference Ethic

Embrace an ’ethic of non-indifference’ by actively caring about and noticing the struggles of people around you, recognizing your obligation to help rather than remaining detached.

6. Be Present & Mindful

Practice mindfulness by being fully present in your daily life and interactions, stopping to notice blessings and expressing thanks, instead of being lost in thought and missing moments.

7. Support Others with Presence

Prioritize physical presence and a sense of urgency when friends or loved ones are struggling, visiting the sick, and showing up for those in mourning to offer deep, loving support.

8. Support with Dignity & Empowerment

Provide financial assistance and support to those in need as an obligation of justice, ensuring it’s done in a way that respects their dignity and empowers them, rather than humiliating them.

9. Mindful Speech & Communication

Be highly conscious of the impact of your speech, actively avoiding gossip, shaming others, or trying to embarrass them in arguments; instead, strive for kindness and less shaming in your communication.

10. Value Every Human Equally

Recognize and internalize the ’three inalienable dignities’ – that every human is of infinite worth, all are equal, and completely unique – and strive to value people equally regardless of their status, wealth, or fame.

11. Repair Brokenness (Tikkun Olam)

Actively work to repair brokenness in the world wherever you see it, fulfilling an obligation to improve society.

12. Reinterpret Ancient Wisdom

Engage with ancient texts and traditions by reinterpreting and reimagining them to find relevant moral guidance and meaning for modern life, rather than taking them as literal historical accounts.

13. Seek Help When Imprisoned

Recognize that when you are ‘stuck in the prison of your own sadness, anxiety, fear, loneliness,’ you need someone to help pull you out, and be prepared to offer that same help to others.

14. Connect with Ancient Inheritance

Seek to connect with ancient wisdom or traditions that have been passed down through generations to gain a sense of belonging, purpose, and meaning in your life.