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Happiness Lessons of The Ancients: Sikhism and How We're All Connected

Mar 27, 2023 26m 35s 11 insights
<p>Educator and author Simran Jeet Singh is Sikh. Most of his fellow Americans have no idea what Sikhism is - causing some to treat Simran with suspicion and hostility. But one of the key teachings of his religion is that all things and all people are connected - something that offers Simran comfort and hope in even the darkest moments. </p> <p>In the first of a two-part show, Dr Laurie Santos talks to Simran about his book - <em>The Light We Give: How Sikh Wisdom Can Transform Your Life - </em>and finds that the centuries-old traditions of Sikhism map surprisingly well over the latest happiness science.  </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
Actionable Insights

1. Practice Non-Discrimination

Commit to non-discrimination against anyone, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, or religion, recognizing that everyone has the same inherent light within them based on the Sikh principle of Ik Onkar.

2. Cultivate Interconnection for Love

Learn to deeply feel the interconnection within the world and all humanity, as this understanding naturally engenders a profound feeling of love.

3. Engage in Service and Justice

Allow feelings of connection and love to blossom outwards, prompting you to show up for people, especially those suffering, by actively engaging in service and justice.

4. Apply Knowledge for Wisdom

Don’t just accumulate knowledge; actively put it into practice to advance your own life and serve others, transforming mere knowledge into true wisdom.

5. Publicly Affirm Values

Publicly affirm your values and moral aspirations through visible actions (e.g., attire, pledges, symbols) to ingrain good habits and hold yourself accountable to them.

6. Find Hope Amidst Difficulty

Practice Chardikala, or everlasting optimism, by acknowledging the reality of pain and challenges while consciously seeking and noticing the goodness and hope present in your surroundings.

7. Practice Gratitude During Hardship

Even in the face of bleak or difficult events, actively search for and acknowledge things to be grateful for, as this can help you find hope and shift your perspective.

8. Cultivate Equanimity and Sweetness

Strive to move beyond binary judgments of good and bad, owning the pain of difficult experiences while simultaneously seeing the goodness in all of it, to live with equanimity and taste the ‘sweetness of life’.

9. See Humanity in Everyone

Practice radical oneness by seeing the inherent humanity in all people, including friends, strangers, and even those who treat you with anger or ugliness, rather than reflecting their negativity.

10. Bridge Aspiration-Behavior Gap

Regularly reflect on the gap between how you aspire to live and your actual daily behaviors, acknowledging your imperfections and committing to align your actions with your values.

11. Notice Personal Biases

Actively try to notice your own prejudices and biases about other people, especially those who are visibly religious, to become aware of and address them.