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You Can't Meditate This Away (Race, Rage, and the Responsibilities of Meditators)

Jun 1, 2020 59m 12s 21 insights
There is fury in America's streets - and we, as meditators, have the opportunity to use our practice to do the hard work of seeing things clearly (including the ugliness in our own minds), and responding wisely. I'm incredibly grateful to my guest, meditation teacher Sebene Selassie, for agreeing to come on this show on short notice (like, two hours beforehand) to discuss such a painful subject. This episode is in response to the protests that have broken out nationwide in the wake of the case of George Floyd, a black man who died after nearly nine minutes with his neck under the knee of a white police officer in Minneapolis. Our conversation is personal and raw. Most of all, we hope it is useful. Where to find Sebene online: Website: https://www.sebeneselassie.com/ Instagram @sebeneselassie // https://www.instagram.com/sebeneselassie/ Other Resources Mentioned: W. E. B. Du Bois // https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._E._B._Du_Bois KAREEM ABDUL-JABBAR L,A Times Op-ED // https://www.latimes.com/opinion/story/2020-05-30/dont-understand-the-protests-what-youre-seeing-is-people-pushed-to-the-edge The 1619 Project by New York Times // https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2019/08/14/magazine/1619-america-slavery.html Seeing White - Scene on Radio // https://www.sceneonradio.org/seeing-white/ Well Read Black Girl // https://www.wellreadblackgirl.com/ Additional Resources: Ten Percent Happier Challenge: https://www.tenpercent.com/challenge Ten Percent Happier Live: https://tenpercent.com/live Coronavirus Sanity Guide: https://www.tenpercent.com/coronavirussanityguide Free App access for Health Care Workers: https://tenpercent.com/care Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/sebene-selassie-252
Actionable Insights

1. Practice to Wake Up

Use meditation practice to wake up, lean in, and face uncomfortable realities, which helps you gain agency, wisdom, and perspective.

2. Connect Inner & Outer Work

Recognize that individual inner work and understanding broader historical/cultural context are intertwined for true freedom, avoiding spiritual or cultural bypass.

3. Commit to Continuous Learning

Engage in a continuous, long-term process of learning and deepening understanding about complex issues, embracing a beginner’s mindset rather than expecting quick answers.

4. Embrace Messiness

Engage with the messiness of difficult conversations and societal issues rather than trying to push them away, as engagement is necessary for healing and progress.

5. Shift from Shame to Curiosity

When personal biases or shortcomings arise, observe any shame without self-centeredness, then return to curiosity and interest to enable better decisions and engagement.

6. See Guilt as Centering Whiteness

Recognize that personal guilt and shame can center whiteness; instead, continuously pay attention to the daily experiences and systemic oppression of Black people.

7. Ground in the Body

Begin meditation practice by grounding in the body to stabilize the mind, allowing you to observe thoughts and emotions without being swept away or believing them.

8. Notice Unconscious Biases

Actively observe your initial thoughts about people, your media consumption, and where your attention is drawn, then question those assumptions to identify and address unconscious biases.

9. Unlearn Biases Consciously

Actively work to unlearn internalized biases by reading, studying, taking classes, and understanding the historical context of how these biases are absorbed from culture.

10. Diversify Information Sources

Examine your social media feeds and general media consumption; consciously seek out and learn from diverse perspectives, especially from people of color, to widen your understanding.

11. White People Talk to White People

White individuals should initiate and consistently process conversations about racial issues with other white people to avoid burdening people of color with education and emotional labor.

12. Listen to People of Color

Actively listen to and learn from people of color by reading their books and articles, following them on social media, and supporting their work as academics and teachers.

13. Practice Compassion

Envision people who are suffering (e.g., doctors, patients, those on food lines) and consciously wish them freedom from suffering, fear, and physical distress.

14. Prioritize Self-Care for Service

Practice self-care, including rest, healthy eating, exercise, meditation, inspiring reading, and journaling, to maintain well-being and effectively serve others, especially when engaging with difficult issues.

15. Feel Emotions, Drop Story

Allow yourself to fully feel emotions without judgment, separating the raw feeling from the accompanying narrative or story to prevent getting caught in rumination.

16. Manage Media Consumption

Stay informed about current events but prevent news and social media from dictating your feelings; balance information intake with self-care to avoid being overwhelmed.

17. Engage in Allyship

Participate in active allyship, such as physically supporting Black people in protests and creating protective barriers, without instigating violence.

18. Volunteer for Diverse Exposure

Volunteer in ways that allow you to encounter and interact with people from different walks of life to broaden your perspective and jar yourself out of self-centered tendencies.

19. Liberation is Interconnected

Recognize that true personal freedom and joy are found by opening to all of life, including pain and suffering, and are ultimately dependent on the liberation of all people.

20. Use Practice for Clarity

Utilize meditation for perspective, grounding, and balance to respond to injustice with clarity and kindness, rather than trying to meditate away the issues themselves.

21. Look Inward and Outward

To see clearly and gain full understanding, look both inward at personal conditioning and outward at external realities and systemic issues.