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Why You're Not Seeing the World Clearly— and How to Fix It | Jessica Nordell

Sep 12, 2022 1h 2m 26 insights
<p><em>New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers.</em></p> <p>---</p> <p>Jessica Nordell is a science and culture journalist who has written for the Atlantic and the New York Times. She earned a B.A. in physics from Harvard and an M.F.A. in poetry from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Her new book is called <a href="https://www.jessicanordell.com/the-end-of-bias" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The End of Bias, A Beginning: The Science and Practice of Overcoming Unconscious Bias. </a></p> <p><br /></p> <p><em>Photo Credit: Leslie Plesser</em></p> <p><br /></p> <p>In this episode we talk about: </p> <p><br /></p> <ul> <li>Why humans have biases</li> <li>What happens physiologically when biases are challenged</li> <li>Why some of the most popular personal and institutional strategies for confronting biases do not work </li> <li>The role that mindfulness and loving-kindness can play in reducing bias</li> </ul> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Full Shownotes:</strong> <a href="https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/jessica-nordell-rerun" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/jessica-nordell-rerun</a></p>
Actionable Insights

1. Examine Biases for Self-Interest

Take a hard look at your biases, as they cause suboptimal decisions and unhappiness, making it a self-interested endeavor.

2. Begin with Self-Reflection

Start tackling your own biases through self-reflection and introspection, observing your thoughts and patterns without immediately identifying with them.

3. Persist After Mistakes

Persist after making mistakes in addressing bias, allowing yourself to feel difficult emotions like shame or anger, then moving through them to acceptance and positive action.

4. Understand Bias’s Self-Harm

Recognize that perpetuating bias harms you by creating disconnection, separation, and a distorted view of reality, leading to a lonely and disconnected experience.

5. Avoid Heart Hardening

Actively avoid denying others’ suffering or cultivating indifference to pain, as this can harden your heart and dehumanize yourself over time.

6. Confront Underlying Horror & Shame

Confront the underlying feelings of horror and shame associated with bias and historical injustices to move through discomfort and take positive action.

7. Question Cultural Thoughts

Recognize that many of your thoughts, especially biased ones, are often cultural imprints rather than purely your own, which can reduce self-blame and allow for clearer examination.

8. Use Loving Kindness for Self-Compassion

Utilize loving-kindness meditation to foster self-compassion and reduce self-blame when you recognize unfair or ungrounded thoughts, making it easier to address them.

9. Self-Compassion for Action

Leverage self-compassion not as an end in itself, but as a means to empower you to move towards connection, inclusivity, and fairness in your actions towards others.

10. Don’t Assume Objectivity

Avoid believing you are objective or immune to bias, as this can increase your trust in your own biases and prevent you from addressing them.

11. Avoid “Colorblind” Approach

Do not adopt a “colorblind” or “genderblind” approach, as studies show this can lead to increased detection of bias and feelings of discrimination by marginalized groups.

12. Boost Bias Awareness & Motivation

Seek out training or resources that boost your awareness of how bias works and its impact, and increase your motivation to change, as this is a key component in altering behavior.

13. Implement Replacement Strategies

Implement replacement strategies for biased thoughts, such as actively looking for alternative explanations for someone’s behavior instead of relying on assumptions.

14. Practice Mindfulness & Meditation

Practice mindfulness and various forms of meditation to improve emotional regulation, reduce stress, and potentially erode the distinction between self and other, fostering altruistic responses.

15. Practice Loving-Kindness Meditation

Engage in loving-kindness meditation to potentially reduce the strong distinction between self and other, fostering a sense of connection and similar responses to both.

16. Reduce Stress to Combat Bias

Actively work to reduce stress, cognitive load, and emotional dysregulation in your life, as these factors exacerbate bias.

17. Cultivate Diverse Relationships

Intentionally seek and cultivate meaningful relationships with people from different social groups, being aware of your tendency towards “homophily” (love of the same).

18. Engage in Cooperative Activities

Participate in cooperative activities with people from different backgrounds where everyone has equal status and works towards a common goal, as this effectively reduces prejudice.

19. Study History to Tackle Bias

Study history, particularly the origins of racism and patriarchy, to understand how present-day biases are a legacy of cultural inventions, which can help you see them more clearly and diminish their grip.

20. Recognize Stereotyping’s Addictive Nature

Be aware that stereotyping can be an addictive intermittent reward cycle, making it hard to break due to the brain’s reward system for confirmed predictions.

21. Understand Bias as Interaction

Recognize that bias is an interactive dynamic, where your treatment of others affects their response and yours, leading to complex interactions.

22. Analyze Organizational Practices for Bias

For organizations, analyze existing policies and practices to identify where bias is showing up, rather than just asking if the organization is biased.

23. Use Structured Decision Criteria

Organizations should develop structured, consistent, and transparent criteria for decision-making before evaluating candidates, to formally reduce the influence of bias.

24. Define Diversity Motivation

Organizations must clearly define their fundamental motivation for pursuing an unbiased and inclusive workplace, understanding what they hope to achieve.

25. Value Diverse Perspectives for Functioning

For organizations, frame diversity as essential to the fundamental functioning and future of the company, viewing diverse perspectives as a source of wealth and essential resources for better performance.

26. Foster Psychological Safety

Organizations should actively foster psychological safety within teams, ensuring everyone feels safe to speak up and learn from one another, as this is crucial for diversity to translate into better performance.