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What's It Like To Be You Right Now? | Bonus Meditation with Dan

Mar 14, 2025 12m 25s 10 insights
<p dir="ltr">This one's simple and easy -- and features some of Dan's favorite instructions from Joseph Goldstein.<br /> <br /> This meditation was originally part of one of Dan's recent Ask Me Anything sessions on Substack – join us as a paid subscriber at <a href="https://www.danharris.com" rel="noopener" target="_blank">DanHarris.com</a> to be a part of these live online events as Dan guides a short meditation then takes your questions. </p> <p> </p>
Actionable Insights

1. Practice Straw Breathing

Perform straw breathing by taking a deep breath in through the nose, then exhaling with pursed lips as if through a straw, making the exhale two or three times longer than the inhale. Do three of these to reset the nervous system.

2. Choose a Meditation Anchor

Select a specific anchor for your meditation focus, such as feeling your body in its position (sitting, lying, standing), focusing on your breath at one spot (belly, chest, nose), or noticing sounds in your environment.

3. Use Mental Notes for Distraction

If struggling with distraction during meditation, softly whisper a mental note in your mind, such as ‘in’ and ‘out’ for breath, or ‘hot,’ ‘cold,’ ’tingling,’ ‘pressure,’ ‘pleasant,’ ‘unpleasant,’ ’thinking,’ or ‘sleepy’ for other sensations or thoughts, to help stay focused.

4. Observe Thoughts Without Judgment

When the thinking mind or ego interferes and carries you away, acknowledge it by ‘blowing it a kiss’ or labeling it (e.g., ’thinking,’ ‘planning,’ ‘anger,’ ‘sadness’), then gently return your attention to the present moment without judgment.

5. Return Focus After Distraction

When you notice your mind has wandered or you’ve become distracted during meditation, simply acknowledge it and gently bring your attention back to your chosen anchor.

6. Ask “What’s it like?”

During meditation, ask yourself, ‘What’s it like to be me right now?’ to cultivate present moment awareness.

7. Find Comfortable Meditation Position

Settle into a comfortable position for meditation, whether sitting in a chair or lying down, ensuring your body is at ease.

8. Stand Up If Sleepy

If feeling super sleepy during meditation, stand up to help stay awake and engaged.

9. Join Renegade Sangha Substack

Become a paid subscriber on danharris.com to access live ‘Ask Me Anything’ (AMA) sessions, which include a short meditation and Q&A, and other benefits like ad-free listening and episode cheat sheets.

10. Provide Feedback or Ask Questions

If you have questions or feedback about the podcast changes, contact Dan Harris at danharris.com for assistance.