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Dec 26, 2022 1h 3m 13 insights
<p><em>New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers.</em></p> <p><em>---</em></p> <p><br /></p> <p>Our guest today is one of the most prominent happiness researchers in the world, and he has come to the conclusion that living the good life boils down to one thing: finding awe. We're going to learn what awe does to your body, how it changes your sense of self and your relationship to the world, and why we evolved to feel awe. We're also going to get eight simple strategies for mainlining awe into our everyday lives. </p> <p><br /></p> <p>Dacher Keltner is a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley, and the faculty director of UC Berkeley's Greater Good Science Center. His new book is called, <a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/622175/awe-by-dacher-keltner/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life</em></a><em>.</em></p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>In this conversation we talk about:</strong></p> <ul> <li>What awe is exactly</li> <li>How awe is different from other primal emotions like fear and appreciation of beauty</li> <li>Why we are awe-starved in our culture right now</li> <li>The connection between awe and morality</li> <li>How to get something called "moral beauty" into our lives as an alternative to the outrage served up by social media</li> <li>The importance of something called "collective effervescence"</li> <li>How to use nature, music, and even death as sources of awe </li> <li>How to understand epiphanies</li> <li>And how awe has the potential to get us into trouble sometimes</li> </ul> <p><br /></p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Full Shownotes:</strong> <a href="https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/dacher-keltner-546" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/dacher-keltner-546</a></p>
Actionable Insights

1. Cultivate Daily Awe

Dedicate at least 10 minutes each day to seeking out experiences of awe across the “eight wonders of life” (moral beauty, nature, collective effervescence, music, visual design, spiritual/religious awe, life/death, epiphanies). This provides a practical roadmap for integrating awe into your daily routine.

2. Awe as Life’s Compass

Set your life’s priorities and defining purposes based on what genuinely provokes awe for you. Awe acts as a fast track to meaning, helping you understand what you truly care about and reducing stress by aligning your actions with your deeper purpose.

3. Reflect on Past Awe

Engage in the exercise of recalling significant awe experiences from your past and contemplate what they taught you. This reflection can help surface your core identity and life’s purpose, revealing what truly matters to you.

4. Counter Self-Focus with Awe

Actively seek awe-inspiring experiences, particularly in nature and through moral beauty, to counteract self-focused tendencies, narcissism, and the negative effects of social comparison. Awe makes the self feel small, deactivating ego-related brain regions and fostering a broader perspective.

5. Seek Moral Beauty

Reflect on individuals who exemplify moral beauty through their courage, kindness, or virtuosity, such as historical figures, community members, or personal mentors. Additionally, curate your media consumption to prioritize morally inspiring content over rage-inducing narratives.

6. Engage in Collective Awe

Participate in group activities that foster a sense of “collective effervescence,” such as sporting events, yoga, dancing, or simply walking in public spaces. Remember to use both your heart and head to evaluate these experiences, ensuring they contribute to the greater good.

7. Connect with Nature Daily

Regularly spend time in nature, whether it’s observing a sunset, walking among trees, or appreciating a mountain river. This practice calms your immune system, reduces cortisol and stress, and improves overall physical and mental robustness.

8. Daily Music Awe

Make it a habit to listen to at least one song each day that brings you a sense of awe, evoking tears or goosebumps. This “IV drip” of music can connect you to your identity and provide continuous moments of wonder.

9. Appreciate Visual Design

Pay close attention to and appreciate the intricate, vast, and interconnected patterns found in visual design, such as architecture, craft, or even the mechanics of complex machines. Awe arises when you notice how these elements coalesce into a unified, astonishing whole.

10. Open to Spiritual Awe

Be open to mystical awe experiences that connect you to fundamental truths or a sense of the divine, regardless of traditional religious affiliation. These can be found through meditation, yoga, nature, or other profound personal experiences.

11. Awe in Grief & Loss

When experiencing grief, intentionally reflect on the lost loved one by revisiting places you shared, listening to their favorite music, or recalling cherished memories. This process, though painful, can evoke awe by keeping their life present and fostering a sense of their enduring presence.

12. Contemplate Causality

Cultivate epiphanies by contemplating the interconnectedness of all events through cause and effect, recognizing that every moment is a culmination of an “incalculable rolling gumbo of previous events.” This perspective can imbue even mundane life with a magical quality, fostering humility and empowerment.

13. Share Awe Stories

Share stories of awe from your work or daily life with others. This practice can be incredibly impactful, evoking strong emotional responses and fostering connection for both the storyteller and the listener.