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The Dharma of Money | Spencer Sherman

Jan 11, 2023 1h 11m 14 insights
<p>When we think about Buddhism or the dharma, we probably don't think about money. </p> <p><br /></p> <p>But when the Buddha laid out guidelines about how to make an ethical livelihood, this didn't preclude material success. This episode is part two of this week's series on money, and dives into how we can bring Buddhist principles to an area of our lives that can create so much fear, greed, and dread. </p> <p><br /></p> <p>Spencer Sherman is the founding CEO of Abacus, a values-driven financial firm, and certified mindfulness teacher.  He teaches the Fearless Finance program and The Mastery of Money program for NYU's Inner MBA program.  He is also the author of <em>The Cure For Money Madness.</em></p> <p><br /></p> <p>In this episode we talk about: </p> <p><br /></p> <ul> <li>How to identify and reframe our potentially harmful beliefs about money</li> <li>How to apply the Four Brahma Viharas to having a healthier relationship with our finances</li> <li>How to use the RAIN technique when we become anxious about money</li> <li>Spencer's 'Enough Practice' designed to give us a sense of equanimity </li> <li>How generosity helps us let go and can create a sense of abundance </li> <li>How mindfulness of money can key us into interconnection</li> <li>And whether you can actually be a successful investor if you're guided by Buddhist values</li> </ul> <p><br /></p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Full Shownotes:</strong> <a href="https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/spencer-sherman-544" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/spencer-sherman-544</a></p> <p><br /></p>
Actionable Insights

1. Cultivate Equanimity for Finances

Train yourself to be more equanimous in the face of financial ups and downs, as this will lead to making better decisions and reduce anxiety and stress about money.

2. Uncover Subconscious Money Beliefs

Identify and reframe long-held, often subconscious beliefs about money, which can otherwise cause suffering and lead to unfortunate decisions.

3. Apply RAIN to Money Anxiety

Use the RAIN practice (Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture/Non-identify) when anxiety about money arises, to feel and acknowledge difficult emotions without judgment, allowing wisdom to emerge for better decisions.

4. Embrace the “Enough” Mindset

Regularly practice the “enough” contemplation to defy the cultural current of “more,” training your brain for present contentment and accessing wisdom for financial decisions by reducing grasping.

5. Reframe Inherited Money Beliefs

Engage in a “reframe meditation” by recalling childhood scenes of inherited money messages, offering compassion to your younger self and the adults involved, then imagining the message you wish you had received to loosen the grip of old beliefs.

6. Practice Sympathetic Joy

Cultivate sympathetic joy (Mudita) by wishing well for others’ success, which helps quiet the comparing mind, reduces envy, and can transform relationships and personal success.

7. Offer Self-Compassion for Money Errors

Offer compassion to yourself for past money mistakes and your current financial situation, as this helps to heal judgment and self-blame, fostering a more nurturing relationship with your finances.

8. Embrace Generosity in Life

Engage in generosity, not just with money but also with your presence, attention, resources, or skills, as this letting-go practice counters grasping, signals sufficiency, and can lead to abundance and happiness.

9. Mindful Money Interactions

Slow down and begin with awareness of every spending, saving, investing, and giving decision, because money is often laden with emotion and speed, leading to reactive choices.

10. Objectively Advise Your Finances

When facing financial decisions, imagine you are advising someone else with your exact situation to access common sense and wisdom, which can be blocked by personal emotions.

11. Cultivate Financial Gratitude

Engage in a gratitude practice, especially before making a big money decision, by appreciating what you already have, shifting your mindset from fear and scarcity to a sense of enoughness.

12. Contemplate Worst Financial Outcomes

Intentionally consider worst-case financial scenarios, either alone or with a trusted person, to realize that even extreme negative outcomes are often manageable, reducing paranoia.

13. Ask for Earning Feedback

If in dire financial straits, courageously talk to friends or colleagues, asking for feedback on your strengths and potential opportunities to earn more money, as this fosters courage for action.

14. Diversify and Embrace Uncertainty

Diversify investments by spreading money across many different categories and thousands of companies, embracing an attitude of “don’t know” about future market predictions, as this generally leads to more success.