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The Antidote to Burnout | Leah Weiss

Aug 5, 2020 1h 8m 16 insights
At a time when work has become more challenging than ever, we're going to explore one myth and one revelation. The myth -- which many of us, myself included, have consciously or subconsciously incorporated into our lives — is that we need to grind ourselves into dust through faux "productivity" in order to achieve professional success. The revelation is that the more effective -- and cleaner burning -- fuel is that potentially sappy notion of finding your purpose. My guest is Leah Weiss, who has impressive bona fides on both the professional and contemplative fronts. She teaches Compassionate Leadership at Stanford Graduate School of Business, and she wrote a book called How We Work. She's also done four 100-day retreats and one 6-month retreat. This conversion was recorded pre-pandemic, but is deeply relevant nonetheless. And toward the end of the conversation, she drops some words that have been rattling around in my head for months. Where to find Leah Weiss online:  Website: https://leahweissphd.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/leahweissphd Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leahweissphd/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leahweissphd/ You can always get started with the Ten Percent Happier app with our flagship course, The Basics. In The Basics, Joseph Goldstein and Dan Harris discuss the fundamentals of mediation and dispel common myths about meditation in a seven-day meditation series. Visit https://10percenthappier.app.link/TheBasicsPod to get started.  Other Resources Mentioned: The Stanford Prison Experiment - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanford_prison_experiment Christina Maslach - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christina_Maslach#:~:text=Known%20for,her%20research%20on%20occupational%20burnout. Kelly McGonigal - http://kellymcgonigal.com/ Thupten Jinpa - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thupten_Jinpa The Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education (CCARE) - http://ccare.stanford.edu/  Steve Cole, UCLA Researcher - https://people.healthsciences.ucla.edu/institution/personnel?personnel_id=45359 The Guest House by Rumi - https://gratefulness.org/resource/guest-house-rumi/ Additional Resources: Ten Percent Happier Live: https://tenpercent.com/live Coronavirus Sanity Guide: https://www.tenpercent.com/coronavirussanityguide Free App access for Frontline Workers: https://tenpercent.com/care Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/leah-weiss-271
Actionable Insights

1. Prioritize Purpose Over Grind

Challenge the myth that professional success requires grinding yourself into dust through ‘faux productivity’; instead, recognize that finding your purpose is a more effective and sustainable fuel.

2. Define Your Personal Purpose

Define your individual purpose as a far-reaching, steady, personally meaningful, and self-transcending goal by reflecting on your core values, past choices, passions, and what you want to be remembered for.

3. Cultivate Innate Compassion

Actively cultivate your innate capacity for compassion, as improving your connection and relationships with other human beings is a ‘wisest form of selfishness’ that leads to greater happiness.

4. Align Habits with Purpose

When forming new habits or breaking old ones, boost your resilience by clearly understanding your core values and purpose, then choose habits that align with these to help you recover from setbacks.

5. Perform Calendar Audit

Conduct a ’time-to-purpose calendar audit’ for a month: look ahead, connect mundane tasks to your purpose, eliminate misaligned activities, and reflect weekly to uncover patterns of friction.

6. Recognize Mixed Motivations

Be honest with yourself in practice and conversation about your mixed motivations, acknowledging altruistic, self-benefiting, and costly impulses, and seriously attend to any internal conflicts of interest.

7. Contemplative Practice for Ethics

Engage in contemplative practice to establish a touchstone with your true self, which can make you more ethical by making you aware of the discomfort of unethical behavior, but also seek community feedback for blind spots.

8. Embrace Imperfection in Ethics

Approach ethical living not as a pursuit of perfection, but as an ongoing process within messiness and imperfection, viewing the ‘swirl’ of challenges as a crucible for continuous learning and growth.

9. Prepare for Life’s Challenges

Cultivate your mental and emotional resilience (Bhavana) in the present to prepare for inevitable future challenges, such as unexpected events or diagnoses, allowing you to navigate difficult moments imperfectly but with readiness.

10. Boot Up Meditation Practice

If you want to start or restart a meditation practice, check out ‘The Basics’ course on the 10% Happier app, which discusses fundamentals and dispels common myths.

11. Practice Non-Meditation

Practice ’non-meditation’ by not focusing on a specific object, instead being present with your experience and the relationship between perception and awareness, doing as little as possible to allow insights to arise naturally.

12. Tibetan Prostration Practice

Engage in Tibetan preliminary practices like 100,000 prostrations, which involve a specific physical movement combined with visualization, to cultivate commitment to awakening and trust in wisdom over habits.

13. Apply Ethical Guardrails

If you are a mindfulness practitioner or teacher, apply ethical guardrails by carefully and vigilantly assessing the intentions of organizations you work with, ensuring they address systemic issues, and be prepared to disengage if intentions shift.

14. Address Systemic Burnout Causes

Recognize that burnout is not solely an individual problem solvable by wellness or mindfulness; it’s deeply influenced by environmental, cultural, societal, and economic factors, requiring systemic solutions in addition to personal resilience strategies.

15. Train Managers for Burnout

Train managers to recognize early signs of burnout in employees, as manager quality is a significant factor in burnout prevalence, and early intervention is more effective and cheaper than waiting until an employee is on disability.

16. Meditation Not a Cure-All

If you are a meditator, avoid the mistake of believing meditation is a cure-all for burnout or other complex issues, as relying solely on practice can lead to ‘spiritual bypass’ and neglect other necessary interventions.