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The 5 Things That Are Ruining Your Meditation (and Your Life) – And How to Handle Them | Bonnie Duran

Sep 28, 2022 1h 5m 36 insights
<p><em>New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers.</em></p> <p><em>---</em></p> <p><br /></p> <p>The Buddha was an inveterate list-maker who gave us easy to remember checklists to help us do life better. One of the handiest lists the Buddha made was called the five hindrances, which is a part of the fourth foundation of mindfulness. This list outlines the five things that mess us up when we're trying to meditate — or, in fact, when we're trying to do anything. If you've got issues right now, odds are pretty high that you are in the throes of one of the hindrances. The excellent news is that the Buddha not only made a taxonomy of the hindrances but also a long list of antidotes. We're going to run through all of this today with Bonnie Duran, a great dharma teacher who is making her second appearance on the show.</p> <p><br /></p> <p>Duran is a teacher and member of the Teachers Council at <a href="https://www.spiritrock.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Spirit Rock Meditation Center</a> and Director of the Center for Indigenous Health Research at the University of Washington's <a href="http://iwri.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Indigenous Wellness Research Institute</a>. She combines extensive research and practice of Buddhism with her deep understanding of indigenous spiritual practices.</p> <p><br /></p> <p><em>This episode is the fourth installment of a series we've launched on the four foundations of mindfulness.</em></p> <p><br /></p> <p>In this episode we talk about:</p> <ul> <li>How the five hindrances manifest in our daily lives</li> <li>Using the RAIN technique to investigate the 5 hindrances</li> <li>Whether there is any type of desire that is helpful</li> <li>Cultivating a sky-like attitude</li> <li>How to not water the seeds of negativity </li> <li>The similarities between Indigenous beliefs and what the Buddha taught</li> <li>How body scans can be an antidote to sleepiness</li> <li>And whether you can ever uproot the hindrances entirely</li> </ul> <p><br /></p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Full Shownotes:</strong> <a href="https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/bonnie-duran-505" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/bonnie-duran-505</a></p>
Actionable Insights

1. Prioritize Mindfulness for Well-being

Engage in mindfulness practice as it has been identified as the most impactful and successful mental health intervention for enhancing personal well-being.

2. Cultivate Virtuous Conduct

To make progress and see clearly, ensure your life is wholesome and virtuous by practicing proper conduct (sila).

3. Weaken Unwholesome States

Actively work to weaken the force of unwholesome mental states (the five hindrances) when they arise, while simultaneously cultivating and strengthening wholesome mental states (the seven factors of awakening) to enhance well-being.

4. Gain Awareness of Hindrances

Cultivate awareness of the five hindrances – unwholesome mental states – to prevent them from controlling your thoughts and actions, thereby regaining agency over your mind.

5. Meditate on Hindrances

When hindrances arise, make them the object of your meditation practice to weaken their power and cultivate greater well-being and happiness.

6. Apply the RAIN Technique

Use the RAIN technique (Recognize, Accept, Investigate, Non-identification) to systematically and wholesomely work with whatever arises in your heart, mind, and body, including the five hindrances, to defang their power.

7. Recognize & Name Hindrances

When struggling in meditation or daily life, recognize and acknowledge the specific hindrance that is arising by naming it.

8. Consider Hindrance Consequences

Non-judgmentally consider the potential negative consequences of continuing to dwell in a particular hindrance to understand its long-term impact.

9. Cultivate Opposing Qualities

Actively cultivate the mental factors that are the opposite of the hindrances; for example, bring loving-kindness to ill will or mindfulness to a wandering mind.

10. Cultivate Sky-like Attitude

Develop a ‘sky-like attitude’ by imagining thoughts as clouds passing through an empty blue sky, noticing the gaps between thoughts, and resting there to realize thoughts are not your true self.

11. Apply Effort to Stop Hindrances

Consciously apply effort to stop unwholesome mental factors like aversion, greed, sloth, torpor, or doubt by firmly acknowledging them and directing them to cease.

12. Choose Wholesome Responses

In daily life, when hindrances like anger, desire, or restlessness arise, pause to clearly see them, then consciously choose and cultivate the opposite, more wholesome mental response.

13. Assess Intentions for Wholesomeness

Before acting, identify the intention behind your action and assess whether it is wholesome or unwholesome, then decide whether to proceed based on this assessment.

14. Cultivate Wholesome Desire (Chanda)

Recognize and cultivate ‘Chanda,’ which is wholesome desire focused on ensuring well-being for yourself, your family, friends, community, and others, rather than self-serving greed.

15. Resist Unwholesome Desire

Recognize and acknowledge desires that are not true sources of well-being for yourself or others, and actively resist indulging in them.

16. Contemplate Desire’s Consequences

Before indulging in a desire (e.g., eating cookies late at night), pause to contemplate the specific negative consequences it will have on your well-being (e.g., lack of sleep).

17. Reflect on Past Indulgences

When experiencing negative outcomes (e.g., tiredness from lack of sleep), reflect on past indulgences (e.g., late-night cookies) to connect the action with its consequence and reinforce the wisdom of avoiding it in the future.

18. Identify Root of Desire

Become aware of the underlying reason for a desire, such as seeking pleasure due to an unpleasant mental state, and then choose more wholesome activities (e.g., yoga) to improve your mood.

19. Practice Non-Rushing

Make a vow to notice when you are hurrying or rushing and consciously choose not to obey that impulse, as rushing leads to careless attention and can contribute to the arising of all hindrances.

20. Recognize Interconnectedness

Counter aversion by recognizing your interconnectedness with all people, even those with whom you disagree, and strive to bring them towards a wholesome understanding rather than harboring hate.

21. Cultivate Loving-Kindness (Metta)

Actively develop mental factors opposite to aversion, such as loving-kindness (metta), compassion for self and others, joy for others’ happiness, and equanimity.

22. Notice Bodily Sensations of Aversion

Pay attention to bodily sensations like heating up or feeling averse, as noticing these physical manifestations can increase awareness of ill will as it arises, allowing you to cultivate its opposite.

23. Avoid Watering Negative Seeds

Refrain from acting on inclinations to be hateful or strike out, as doing so ‘waters the seeds’ of negative mental factors, making them stronger and more prevalent in your life.

24. Meet Hindrances with Humor

Approach the arising of hindrances like aversion with a sense of humor, recognizing that these are universal human experiences and not unique to you.

25. “High-Five” Your Inner Demons

When negative emotions like anger arise, acknowledge them without taking them too seriously or identifying with them; instead, ‘blow them a kiss’ or ‘high-five your demons’ as a conditioned response and move towards a saner state.

26. Universalize Personal Struggles

When experiencing personal struggles like self-doubt, remind yourself that countless others are experiencing the same, thereby depersonalizing the struggle and fostering self-compassion.

27. Recognize Sloth & Torpor

The first step to addressing sloth and torpor is to recognize and name its presence, then investigate its physical, mental, and energetic manifestations using the RAIN method.

28. Practice Body Scanning

Engage in body scanning meditation, starting from your head and moving down to your feet, feeling whatever sensations the body offers, as this practice can increase awareness and counteract sloth and torpor.

29. Count Your Breaths

To counteract sloth and torpor, try counting your breaths, for example, from one to ten and back down, to anchor your attention.

30. Open Eyes While Meditating

If experiencing sloth and torpor during meditation, open your eyes and look at a light for a while to help increase awareness and reduce sleepiness.

31. Identify Restlessness Triggers

When experiencing restlessness and worry, first recognize its presence, then persistently look into the immediate past to identify what conditions or triggers caused it to arise.

32. Recognize Impermanence of Restlessness

Understand that restlessness and worry are impermanent, passing experiences, and consistently return your attention to your meditation practice.

33. Set Positive Intentions

To counter restlessness, keep returning to your breath and set positive intentions, such as ‘May calm and concentration arise,’ saying it once or twice during meditation and then returning to the practice.

34. Observe Doubt Internally

When doubt arises, observe it within yourself, recognizing it as an unwholesome quality, and refrain from actions that would hinder your cultivation of inner beauty and well-being.

35. Address Self-Doubt with Love

When doubt arises about your ability or a teacher’s efficacy, question the underlying self-doubt, self-hatred, or ill will, acknowledge the hindrance, and respond with self-love and compassion.

36. Utilize Free Dharma Resources

Access the vast amount of free resources available online, such as Buddhist psychology PDFs or talks on Dharma Seed, to deepen your understanding of Buddhist teachings and practices.