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Steve Armstrong

May 11, 2016 1h 12m 14 insights
Enlightenment (or, more specifically, exactly how one gets enlightened) has become a somewhat taboo subject. For years, American meditation teachers have largely avoided discussing what's known as "the progress of insight" -- the various stages that lead to Nirvana -- with their students. But why? In this episode, Dan gets clear, candid answers from Steve Armstrong, a long-time meditation teacher and the managing editor of the new book "Manual of Insight."
Actionable Insights

1. Practice Paramis Daily

Consciously practice virtues like patience, generosity, loving-kindness, and non-reactivity every day to prepare your mind for liberating insight, as this is crucial even outside formal meditation.

2. Sustain Daily Meditation

Maintain consistent daily meditation practice (e.g., 1-2 hours) to keep the thread of awareness going and support your spiritual progress.

3. Attend Meditation Retreats

Go on meditation retreats for deep immersion into the mind, allowing you to settle in, understand your inner workings, and gain a different perspective on life.

4. Observe Your Mind’s Workings

Become familiar with how your mind works by observing it, which helps you see life as it truly is and reduce reactivity and recreational distractions.

5. Question Acquired Beliefs

Put aside assumptions and beliefs acquired from family, culture, and education, as they may be fantasies not aligned with your deepest experience of reality.

6. Avoid Obsessive Striving

Approach spiritual practice without obsession or excessive striving, as trying too hard can impede your progress and lead to an unskillful attitude.

7. Recognize Pseudo-Nirvana

Be aware that pleasant experiences like ecstasy, bliss, and joy (pseudo-Nirvana or spiritual goodies) are temporary stages, not the ultimate goal of enlightenment.

8. Cultivate Equanimity Towards Bliss

Cultivate equanimity towards pleasant spiritual experiences and avoid clinging to them, as attachment can prevent further progress beyond the ‘arising and passing away’ stage.

9. Seek Teacher for Dark Night

During difficult stages of practice (Dukkha Nyanas or ‘dark night’), seek guidance from a skillful teacher to navigate fear and disillusionment without becoming disturbed.

10. Reaffirm Moment-to-Moment Noticing

When facing challenging phases, reaffirm your commitment to simply noticing things as they are being known moment-to-moment, without judgment or expectation.

11. Insight Beyond Retreats

Understand that profound spiritual insights, including stream entry, can occur in daily life outside of formal retreats, especially when paramis are cultivated consistently.

12. Study the Path

Educate yourself about the meditation path by reading books and finding out what’s involved, which helps you understand the process and what to expect.

13. Meditation for Emotional Repair

Utilize meditation practice for emotional repair, healing family-of-origin issues, and addressing other emotional challenges.

14. Redefine Enlightenment

Reframe enlightenment as a grounded, ordinary understanding of moment-to-moment life, free from suffering and entanglement, rather than a grandiose or mysterious concept.