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Shiza Shahid, Malala Fund Co-Founder

Nov 1, 2017 43m 4s 20 insights
Growing up in a post-9/11 Pakistan, Shiza Shahid had what she called an "activist childhood," where she volunteered in prisons, refugee camps and disaster relief efforts after the 2005 Kashmir earthquake. When the Taliban issued an edict banning girls from going to school, the then-Stanford University sophomore created a secret summer camp in Pakistan for girls, one of which was a 12-year-old Malala Yousafzai. When Malala was shot in 2012 by a Taliban gunman, Shahid co-founded the Malala Fund to promote Malala's story of perseverance and advocacy for girls' education.
Actionable Insights

1. Find Pleasure in Meditation

Seek out a meditation style that you find pleasurable, such as those incorporating music or focusing on body sensations, because experiencing pleasure during the practice makes it easier to sustain the habit and keep returning to it.

2. Experiment with Meditation Types

If traditional breath-focused meditation doesn’t work for you or you consider yourself “too ADHD,” try alternative forms like sound-based meditation or body scans, as different types may suit different personalities, times of day, or stages of life.

3. Meditation for Anxiety & Self-Awareness

Practice meditation to reduce anxiety and cultivate self-awareness, allowing you to be present with yourself without external distractions and to clearly observe your thought patterns, including self-judgment and fears.

4. Combine Practice with Philosophy

Enhance your meditation practice by delving into its underlying philosophy (e.g., Buddhism, Eastern spirituality), as the intellectual understanding can feed the practice and provide deeper meaning and motivation.

5. Conscious Awareness of Mortality

Cultivate a conscious awareness of your own mortality and the fragility of life, as this perspective can provide a “massive dose of perspective” and help you live better by prioritizing what truly matters.

6. Reflect on the Illusion of Self

When anxious or stressed, reflect on the philosophical concept of the “lack of self” or the self as an illusion to detach from expectations and ideas that determine self-worth, helping to overcome negative feelings.

7. Strive for Meaningful Impact

If you have the privilege of life and opportunities, embrace the responsibility to make a positive difference in the world, aiming to improve the lives of others or contribute to societal progress.

8. Cultivate Deep Connections

Actively foster deep connections with other people, as these relationships are a fundamental component of a meaningful life and can counteract feelings of loneliness prevalent in individualistic societies.

9. Live by a True North

Develop and adhere to a personal value system that acts as your “true north,” guiding your decisions and actions to live a meaningful life.

10. Flexible Meditation Schedule

Don’t feel pressured to maintain a rigid daily meditation schedule if you are “undisciplined”; instead, allow yourself to meditate when it feels right in the moment, as this flexibility can help sustain the habit.

11. Acknowledge Shared Human Insecurities

Be aware that all people, regardless of their life circumstances or success, experience similar fears and insecurities, which can help alleviate feelings of isolation in your own struggles.

12. Meditation as Secular Prayer

Consider meditation as a secular practice to achieve the benefits of pausing, reflecting, and finding peace, similar to how prayer functions in religious traditions, to become more deliberate about life’s intentions.

13. Conscious Leadership

Employ meditation to become a more conscious leader, focusing on being present with your team and stakeholders to offer better support and guidance.

14. Invest in Mission-Driven Tech

Invest in early-stage technology startups that are mission-driven and have the potential to scale rapidly, as these ventures can combine impact with market forces to create scalable solutions for social challenges.

15. Promote Diversity in Investment

Advocate for and actively promote greater diversity, particularly more women and people of color, in investment decision-making roles within industries like venture capital, to foster broader innovation and better returns.

16. Redesign Workplaces for Parents

Advocate for and support the redesign of workplaces to offer greater flexibility and support systems for working parents, recognizing that current economic structures often disadvantage women’s careers.

17. Work for Purpose-Driven Companies

Seek employment with companies that provide a sense of purpose and meaning, as aligning your work with your values is increasingly important for personal fulfillment and reflects a broader shift in capitalism.

18. Support Girls’ Education

Support girls’ education through advocacy for policies guaranteeing 12 years of free, high-quality education, and by providing grants to innovative organizations, as this is a critical driver for social change and empowerment.

19. Consider Stakeholders Beyond Shareholders

Support the idea that companies should be responsible not only to shareholders but also to all other stakeholders, and that wealth creation should benefit everyone involved in a company’s success.

20. Prioritize Sustainability & Diversity

Encourage businesses to prioritize sustainability and diversity from their early stages, rather than addressing them as afterthoughts, to build more ethical and effective companies.