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Rewire Your Relationship To Food | Brother Pháp Lưu

Jan 8, 2025 1h 2m 15 insights
<p>The science and dharma of mindful eating. How it can stop over eating—and how to actually make the habit.</p> <p> </p> <p><a href="https://plumvillage.org/people/dharma-teachers/br-phap-luu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Brother Pháp Lưu</a> is an ordained monk in the Plum Village tradition started by Zen Master Thích Nhất Hạnh. He's worked with scientists at Dartmouth College and the Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health to develop research on the effect of Plum Village mindfulness practices on children.</p> <p> </p> <p>This episode is part of our monthlong <a href="https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast-playlists/new-years-2025-do-life-better" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Do Life Better</em></a> series. </p> <p> </p> <p><strong>We talk about:</strong></p> <ul> <li>The health benefits of mindful eating</li> <li>The line between moderation and restriction </li> <li>The five contemplations before eating </li> <li>The basic steps of mindful eating </li> <li>How to ensure mindful eating doesn't feel like a chore or burden</li> <li>Fasting and our culture's dysregulated relationship to food</li> <li>Mindful consumption in general</li> <li>The four nutriments</li> <li>And much more</li> </ul> <p> </p> <p><strong>Related Episodes:</strong></p> <ul> <li><a href="https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast-playlists/new-years-2025-do-life-better" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Do Life Better</em></a></li> <li><a href="https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast-playlists/get-fit-sanely" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Get Fit Sanely</em></a></li> <li><a href="https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/evelyn-tribole-rerun-2023" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Anti-Diet | Evelyn Tribole</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/judson-brewer-hunger?a8e9f451_page=2" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Science of Why You Eat When You're Not Hungry–And How to Stop | Judson Brewer</a></li> </ul> <p> </p> <p><strong>Sign up for Dan's newsletter</strong> <a href="http://www.danharris.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>here</strong></a></p> <p><strong>Follow Dan on social:</strong> <a href="https://bit.ly/3tGigG5" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Instagram</strong></a><strong>,</strong> <a href="https://bit.ly/3FOA84J" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>TikTok</strong></a></p> <p><strong>Ten Percent Happier online</strong> <a href="https://bit.ly/46TZglY" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>bookstore</strong></a></p> <p><strong>Subscribe to our</strong> <a href="https://bit.ly/3FybRzD" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>YouTube Channel</strong></a></p> <p><strong>Our favorite playlists on:</strong> <a href="https://spoti.fi/3Qa8kMT" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Anxiety</strong></a><strong>,</strong> <a href="https://spoti.fi/3MjtMxF" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Sleep</strong></a><strong>,</strong> <a href="https://spoti.fi/3QvyA5J" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Relationships</strong></a><strong>,</strong> <a href="https://spoti.fi/3QxZASc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Most Popular Episodes</strong></a></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>Full Shownotes:</strong> <a href="https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/phap-luu-889" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/phap-luu-889</a></p> <p> </p>
Actionable Insights

1. Practice Five Eating Contemplations

Before eating, silently or communally reflect on five points: the food’s universal origins, eating with gratitude and worthiness, transforming greed for moderation, the food’s planetary impact, and nurturing community through the meal. This practice fosters gratitude, reduces overeating, and connects you to the food’s deeper significance.

2. Engage All Senses While Eating

To eat mindfully, begin by returning to your body with a breath, then observe the food’s colors, smell it, and place it in your mouth without immediately chewing. Put down your utensils, feel the texture with your tongue, listen to the sounds of chewing, and be aware of swallowing and digestion. This deep sensory engagement transforms eating into a profound experience and helps you feel full sooner.

3. Cultivate Communal Eating Spaces

Actively seek or create opportunities to eat with others—family, friends, or colleagues—even if it’s just for a few minutes of silence before conversation. Eating communally fosters accountability, reduces isolated overeating, and strengthens relationships, moving away from solitary, mindless consumption.

4. Eat Until Slightly Less Than Full

Practice eating slowly and mindfully, paying attention to your body’s satiety cues, and aim to finish your meal feeling a little bit hungry, rather than completely full. This helps with digestion, prevents overeating, and ensures you feel healthy hunger before your next meal, a practice the Buddha advised as ‘six mouthfuls before full’.

5. Pause Before Eating

Take a moment to pause before you begin eating, perhaps with a deep breath or by listening to a bell, to bring your mind and body together. This simple act creates a sacred moment, boosts mindfulness, and can significantly reduce mindless eating and overeating.

6. Let Go of Mindful Eating as Chore

If practicing mindful eating feels like a burden or a chore, allow yourself to let it go in that moment and simply enjoy your food. Forcing the practice can lead to negative associations; instead, return to it gently and incrementally, perhaps by focusing on just the first three mindful bites, to make it a joyful experience.

7. Observe Post-Meal Digestion

Extend your mindfulness beyond the meal by paying attention to the process of digestion and how your body feels afterward. This sustained awareness helps you connect cause and effect between what you eat and your physical well-being, informing future eating choices experientially rather than just intellectually.

8. Experiment with Overeating to Learn

If you struggle with overeating, occasionally allow yourself to eat ‘a whole box of cookies’ or too much of a particular food, but do so with full attention to the experience and its consequences. This direct, mindful observation can be a powerful learning tool to understand cravings and their effects.

9. Practice Gentle, Mindful Fasting

Consider incorporating gentle forms of fasting, such as alternate-day fasting with modified calorie intake on ‘fast’ days, to become free from habitual eating patterns. Ensure fasting is approached with mindfulness and awareness of your motivation, avoiding spiritual athleticism or self-directed aggression, and ideally with guidance.

10. Guard Your Sense Impressions

Recognize that what you consume through your eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body, and mind (sense impressions) is a form of nourishment that profoundly affects you. Be mindful of external stimuli like music or media, as unguarded senses can lead to suffering, akin to a cow with a skin disease exposed to infesting insects.

11. Reflect on Your Volition (Deepest Desire)

Examine your deepest desires and what truly drives you in life, career, and relationships, as this ‘volition’ acts as a powerful form of consumption. Be aware when your desires impel you towards actions you know are not right, like a strong man dragging another into a pit of burning coals.

12. Observe Consciousness as Nutriment

Pay attention to the constant flow of memories, thoughts, and sense impressions in your consciousness, recognizing them as a form of ’nutriment’ that can cause suffering if unexamined. Cultivate awareness to avoid getting lost in past regrets or future projects, which can disconnect you from the present moment.

13. Get Involved in Local Food Systems

To reduce suffering and increase awareness of your food’s origins, consider getting involved with local organic community gardens or supporting community-supported agricultural (CSA) farms. This creates a visible and experiential relationship with the land and the people who care for it.

14. Organize Mindful Hikes and Picnics

Create opportunities to practice mindful eating and walking in nature, such as organizing mindful hikes followed by silent picnics. This offers a holistic experience, connecting you with the environment and fostering communal well-being beyond a typical indoor setting.

15. Observe Eating Without Self-Identity

Practice observing the act of eating without attaching it to a fixed sense of ‘me’ or ‘I,’ recognizing the body as a wondrous, continuous process. This ‘concentration on non-self’ can lead to profound spiritual awakening and a deeper understanding of interbeing.