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Rasmus Hougaard and Jacqueline Carter, The Mind of the Leader

Feb 20, 2019 1h 9m 36 insights
<p>Rasmus Hougaard and Jacqueline Carter from the Potential Project discuss their mission of enhancing performance for leaders and large organizations through mindfulness. Potential Project believes we can cocreate a more peaceful and kinder world by helping others reach a calmer and more focused mindset. Hougaard and Carter have deep roots in the practice of meditation and mindfulness and have written books about what kind of mental qualities are needed for leaders in today's society along with what will effectively drive great work performance. Hougaard and Carter provide insight on how they have achieved this with large organizations such as Microsoft and Google. The Plug Zone Website: https://www.potentialproject.com/ Books: https://www.potentialproject.com/books/the-mind-of-the-leader/</p>
Actionable Insights

1. Integrate Mindfulness Daily

Apply mindfulness techniques to daily activities like emails, meetings, priorities, sleep, and work-life balance to master the mind in everything you do.

2. Commit to Daily Practice

Maintain a consistent daily meditation practice, as without it, things tend to fall apart, especially during busy periods, helping you stay calm, focused, and centered.

3. Limit Top Priorities

Discipline yourself to identify only two or three true top priorities for the day and schedule them, as the mind cannot handle many ’top’ priorities, preventing overwhelm and enhancing focus.

4. Avoid Morning Email Check

Do not check email first thing in the morning to preserve your most creative and expansive mind, preventing it from being cluttered by minutia.

5. Turn Off Notifications

Shut down email and other device notifications on desktop and phone to avoid constant distractions, which can shrink the prefrontal cortex and impair focus.

6. Take Performance Breaks

When encountering creative blocks or tough spots, take a walk, get space, or do a one-minute mindfulness practice instead of reaching for digital distractions, to clear your mind and foster new ideas.

7. Schedule Meeting Transition Time

Always end meetings five minutes early and schedule at least five minutes of transition time in your calendar to mentally prepare for the next interaction.

8. Reset Before Meetings

During transition time, take 30-60 seconds to sit and breathe, allowing your mind to settle and become clearer for the upcoming meeting, rather than checking devices.

9. Practice Attentive Listening

In meetings, silence your inner voice and actively listen to what’s being said, as this can lead to faster progress and more effective problem-solving, with one company reducing meeting time by 35%.

10. Introduce Collective Pause

Suggest a one-minute pause at the beginning of meetings where everyone is present without devices or conversations, helping the team settle and be more attentive.

11. Check Your State of Mind

Before important discussions or giving feedback, be aware of your current state of mind to ensure you are in the right mindset for effective communication and interaction.

12. Allow Colleagues to Prepare

Give colleagues a chance to clear their minds and prepare for important discussions, rather than grabbing them on the run, to increase the likelihood of successful outcomes.

13. Practice Mindfulness Before Bed

Do a few minutes of mindfulness practice before bed to calm the mind and let go of unresolved daily issues, which can improve sleep quality by an average of 37%.

14. No Devices Before Bed

Avoid all devices for one hour before bed to clear the mind of thoughts and ruminations that keep you awake, promoting a perceptual state conducive to sleep.

15. Engage Perceptual Activities Pre-Sleep

Instead of conceptual thinking, engage in perceptual activities like walking, exercising, playing with pets, or taking a shower before bed to shift into a sleep-conducive state.

16. Mindful Relaxation for Sleep

Lie on your back, breathe out and relax, and consciously shift to your side when you start to fall asleep, creating a distinct transition from relaxation to sleep; repeat if waking up at night.

17. Cultivate Mindfulness as Leader

Develop mindfulness to be focused, self-aware, and present with your people, as it is a foundational quality for effective leadership, engagement, and performance.

18. Practice Selflessness in Leadership

Lead for the greater good and benefit of the majority, not just personal interest, as this fosters employee willingness to work hard and builds long-term loyalty.

19. Show Compassion as Leader

Approach leadership with the intention to benefit others, even when delivering tough feedback or making difficult decisions, to build trust and ensure people know you have their back.

20. Prioritize Employee Well-being

Adopt a business philosophy of taking care of your people (e.g., maintaining health coverage during a crisis), as this leads to higher engagement, loyalty, and ultimately better financial performance.

21. Help Toxic People See Ineffectiveness

If dealing with a toxic individual, try to help them see how their behavior negatively impacts their own goals (e.g., team turnover, negative reviews) to open a dialogue for change.

22. Prioritize Self-Care with Toxic Bosses

If you cannot change a toxic boss or situation, prioritize self-care and self-compassion to manage the personal impact and maintain your well-being.

23. Recognize When to Pull Away

Develop self-awareness through practice to notice tension or frustration arising, and be willing to pull away from a situation (e.g., end a meeting) before reacting poorly.

24. Communicate Need for Space

If you need to step away from an interaction, respectfully communicate that you’re not in the right headspace to continue, emphasizing the importance of the conversation and your desire to be your best self.

25. Integrate Mindfulness into Culture

Work to make mindfulness, attention, and emotional regulation a normal part of team or organizational culture, so these practices become effective and widely accepted.

26. Mindfulness is Mental Agility

Understand that mindfulness fosters mental velocity and agility, enabling you to switch between calm focus and necessary toughness, rather than making you soft or passive.

27. Focus on One Meditation Style

When starting meditation, pick one school, teacher, or set of related practices and commit to it for a couple of years to establish a solid grounding before exploring other styles.

28. Use App Coach for Advice

Utilize the coach feature within the 10% Happier app for personalized, granular advice on specific meditation styles or any questions you have.

29. Focus In on Anxiety

When strong emotions like anxiety arise during meditation, examine the feeling by breaking it down into thoughts and bodily sensations to understand its impermanence and impersonality.

30. Focus Away from Anxiety

Alternatively, when strong emotions arise, note them and then return your attention to a calming anchor like the breath to manage the intensity.

31. Use Body as Meditation Focus

If focusing on the breath causes anxiety, switch to focusing on the feeling of your body sitting, a specific spot (e.g., bottom on cushion), or the sensation of your hands touching.

32. Practice Body Scan Meditations

Explore body scan meditations, systematically focusing awareness from your head down to your toes, as an alternative to breath focus.

33. Focus on Sounds in Meditation

Use sounds as an anchor for meditation if breath focus is challenging or anxiety-inducing.

34. Practice Open Awareness Meditation

Engage in open awareness meditation, focusing on whatever naturally arises in your experience and gently returning to this awareness when distracted.

35. Practice Loving Kindness Meditation

Explore loving kindness meditation as a specific style to cultivate positive emotions and broaden your practice.

36. Attend Meditation Retreat

Sign up for a meditation retreat, especially for beginners, as it can be a great way to ‘dip your toes in’ and have a transformative experience of being alone with your mind.