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Night School: How to Meditate While You're Asleep | Andrew Holecek

Jul 5, 2023 53m 47s 14 insights
<p><em>New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers.</em></p> <p><em>---</em></p> <p>This is a fun, weird, extremely interesting and inspiring episode.</p> <p><br /></p> <p>It's about lucid dreaming, something that people might perceive as hippie nonsense, but is actually deeply woven into ancient and time-tested Buddhist traditions. </p> <p><br /></p> <p>Our guest today has been studying and practicing Buddhism and what he calls nocturnal meditations for more than four decades. And he has remarkably simple and down to earth tips for doing this in your own life. He argues anybody can do this. And the proposition is pretty compelling. We're asleep for a huge percentage of our life, and from a perspective of contemplative development, or training your mind, that's a huge stretch of land that is lying fallow. </p> <p><br /></p> <p>Andrew Holecek is an expert on lucid dreaming and the Tibetan yogas of sleep and dream. He is a member of the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, and the author of scientific papers on lucid dreaming. He has also written many books on the subject, including: <a href="https://www.andrewholecek.com/dream-yoga-book/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Dream Yoga: Illuminating Your Life Through Lucid Dreaming and the Tibetan Yogas of Sleep</em></a>.</p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>In this episode we talk about:</strong></p> <p><br /></p> <ul> <li>The Five Nocturnal Meditations, which include: liminal dreaming, lucid dreaming, dream yoga, sleep yoga, and bardo yoga</li> <li>Why bother with these nocturnal practices in the first place?</li> <li>How these nocturnal practices might be the next phase of human evolution</li> <li>The problem of wake-centricity</li> <li>Practical tips for trying this stuff yourself</li> <li>And if lucid dreaming is meant for everyone – including those of us with sleep issues</li> </ul> <p><br /></p> <p>For tickets to TPH's live event in Boston on September 7:</p> <p>https://thewilbur.com/armory/artist/dan-harris/</p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Full Shownotes:</strong> <a href="https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tenpercent.com/tph/podcast-episode/andrew-holecek-620</a></p> <p><br /></p>
Actionable Insights

1. Leverage Sleep for Development

Recognize that a significant portion of life is spent sleeping, which can be utilized for accelerated psycho-spiritual development, rather than being ‘fallow’. What you do in the dream arena is seven to nine times more effective than in the waking state, impacting the roots of your being.

2. Cultivate Observational Intent

As you fall asleep or wake up, cultivate an ‘observational intent’ by mindfully witnessing your mind’s transition from thought to images to dreams, without trying too hard or being too loose. This helps you become familiar with the subtle dimensions of your mind.

3. Practice Daily Meditation

Engage in standard meditation practices during the day, as this helps establish a more nuanced relationship with your mind and naturally cultivates the lucidity principle that can extend into dream and sleep states.

4. Intentionality Creates Habits

Be aware that any intentional action, even within a lucid dream, creates habits or karma. This means that indulging in narcissistic or negative activities in lucid dreams can cultivate negative patterns, while conscious choices can foster positive ones.

5. Use Dream Signs & State Checks

Condition yourself to perform ‘state checks’ or ‘reality checks’ whenever something incongruous or dream-like happens in your waking life. For example, jump up and see if you float, as this habit will transfer into your dreams, triggering lucidity.

6. Implement Wake and Back to Bed

Set an alarm to wake up two to three hours before your usual time, stay awake for 15-30 minutes without artificial light or screens, engage in meditation or induction methods, and then go back to sleep. This method can significantly increase the chances of lucid dreaming.

7. Set Daily Lucid Dreaming Intentions

Regularly affirm your intention to have lucid dreams by telling yourself, ‘Tonight, I’m going to have many dreams. Tonight, I’m going to remember my dreams. Tonight, I’m going to wake up in my dreams.’ This consistent intention acts as a ‘perfume’ for your nocturnal practice.

8. Practice Skills in Lucid Dreams

Utilize lucid dreams as a sanctuary to practice physical skills or improve performance, as brain scanners show similar activation during dream practice as during waking practice, leveraging neuroplasticity for accelerated development.

9. Resolve Interpersonal Issues in Dreams

Engage in role-playing or a form of therapy within lucid dreams to resolve interpersonal issues with others, as the physical presence of the person is not required for the mind to work through the relationship dynamics.

10. Transform Nightmares in Lucid Dreams

Use lucidity within dreams to confront and transform nightmares, which can be a significant psychological benefit and lead to personal growth.

11. Practice Dream Yoga for Habits

Progress to dream yoga to actively work with and transform habitual patterns revealed within the context of your dreams, moving beyond mere self-fulfillment to self-transcendence by replacing negative habits with good ones.

12. Embrace Trial and Error

Approach nocturnal meditation with a playful, curious, and determined intent, understanding that you will ‘fake it’ and make mistakes initially. Be your own guide, experiment with techniques, and find what works for you, as the goal is lucidity, not mastering any single technique.

13. Apply the ‘Middle Way’

When practicing, maintain a balance between being ’not too tight’ (over-efforting, leading to insomnia) and ’not too loose’ (under-efforting, leading to vegetating). This ‘middle way’ helps in finding your sweet spot for effective practice.

14. Prepare for Death with Bardo Yoga

For those interested in deeper practices, utilize lucid dreaming and sleep yoga to prepare for what is called ’the dream at the end of time’ or death, as the experiences in nighttime dreams are considered highly similar to those at the end of life.