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Neil DeGrasse Tyson on Why Having a "Cosmic Perspective" Will Help You Do Life Better

May 1, 2023 1h 8m 17 insights
<p><em>New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers.</em></p> <p>---</p> <p>Today's guest is the legendary astrophysicist Neil deGrasse Tyson. Tyson is the director of the <a href="https://www.amnh.org/research/hayden-planetarium" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Hayden Planetarium at the American Museum of Natural History</a>, the host of the Emmy nominated podcast, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@StarTalk" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Star Talk</a>, and the recipient of 21 honorary doctorates. He also has an asteroid named in his honor.</p> <p><br /></p> <p>Tyson's latest book is right up our alley on the show. It's called <a href="https://neildegrassetyson.com/books/2022-09-starry-messenger/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Starry Messenger: Cosmic Perspectives on Civilization</em></a> and it's basically about how taking a scientific perspective can improve your life—and the world.  </p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>In this episode we talk about:</strong></p> <p><br /></p> <ul> <li>Applying a scientific lens to our emotions</li> <li>The importance of intellectual humility</li> <li>How the knowledge of death brings meaning to life </li> <li>Neil's long view of social media</li> <li>Whether we are living in a simulation</li> <li>Neil's personal mental health regime</li> <li>And whether there is intelligent life in the universe</li> </ul> <p><br /></p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Full Shownotes:</strong><a href="https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/neil-degrasse" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/neil-degrasse-tyson-594 </a></p>
Actionable Insights

1. Death Gives Life Meaning

Recognize that the knowledge of your own mortality is the greatest force for meaning and purpose in life, bringing focus and intensity to cherish every moment and act productively.

2. Cultivate Humility (Intellectual, Emotional)

Approach disagreements with intellectual and emotional humility, recognizing that your own viewpoint might be wrong and being receptive to learning, rather than solely defending your initial position.

3. Actively Challenge Personal Biases

Actively question your own ideas and assumptions, seeking out others to critically evaluate your viewpoints and point out errors, similar to a mini peer review process.

4. Holistically Evaluate Decisions

When making decisions or adopting behaviors, thoroughly think through all elements and consequences, using objective truths as a foundation, rather than relying on feelings or incomplete ideas.

5. Confront Impossible Challenges

Do not be dissuaded by hopelessness or the apparent impossibility of a challenge; give yourself credit for ingenuity and actively work to change things that need changing.

6. Calibrate Beliefs Objectively

When forming opinions, calibrate them against objective truths to avoid holding strongly held opinions with no foundation, fostering more productive conversations.

7. Cosmic Perspective on Annoyances

Use a cosmic perspective to make a more accurate measurement of daily annoyances, stepping back to consider the broader context and prevent emotional distress.

8. Practice Self-Awareness

Be self-aware of your actions and their implications, especially when your choices prioritize one group or cause over another, and be informed about your motivations.

9. Understand Others’ Upbringing

When observing regressive or negative behavior in others, consider their upbringing and lack of exposure to different perspectives, which can open the door for conversation rather than conflict.

10. Observe Behavior for Future Interactions

Instead of letting regressive human conduct affect you emotionally, log it as an observation of human capability to inform and strategize for future interactions with people.

11. Differentiate Hope from Control

Recognize that hope implies a lack of control over an outcome; instead of merely hoping or praying for change, actively control and work towards desired outcomes where possible.

12. Avoid Mindless Time-Wasting

Avoid mindlessly wasting time; if you’re doing nothing, engage in deep thoughts, or if you’re seeking entertainment, choose activities that bring joy or serve a purpose, rather than passive non-engagement.

13. Strive for Daily Improvement

Actively work to be more productive or improved today than you were yesterday, using any metric that helps you achieve personal growth.

14. Re-Commune with the Cosmos

To reset from life’s complexities and find comfort, engage in a personal practice like stargazing with a telescope, allowing for quiet reflection and a reconnection with the universe.

15. Read Old Books for Humility

Read old books to understand past ways of thinking, compare them to present understanding, and cultivate humility by recognizing that current scientific frontiers might be viewed as quaint in the future.

16. Engage in Escapist Storytelling

Watch movies or engage with storytelling (novels, etc.) with family to step into others’ lives, see the world through different lenses, and fulfill the human need for entertainment and connection.

17. Contextualize Problems Historically

When facing current societal divisions or conflicts, quantify them and compare them to historical data to gain perspective and recognize that things may be improving by objective measures.