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Loretta Hidalgo Whitesides, The New Right Stuff

Feb 13, 2019 1h 2m 33 insights
Having dreamed of space since she was a little girl, Loretta Hidalgo Whitesides wants to use the power of space to shift our perspectives, connect us with each other and our home planet and become the kind of species we would be proud to send to the nearest star. She studied astrobiology at Stanford and Caltech, and has done research on plant life in the Canadian Arctic with NASA, dove to the bottom of the ocean with Titanic Director James Cameron and floated weightless hundreds of times as a Flight Director for Zero Gravity Corporation. She currently teaches leadership and development, as well as mindfulness, to the staff at Virgin Galactic. She believes space and mindfulness have the power to bring the world together in a way that will help expand our minds and grow as a species. The Plug Zone Website: http://lorettawhitesides.com/ Website: https://www.thenewrightstuff.com/ Twitter: @lorettahidalgo
Actionable Insights

1. Embrace the New Right Stuff

Cultivate authenticity, vulnerability, and full self-expression, bringing your whole self to your work and life to foster success and positive cultural change, moving beyond the old stoic, lone wolf mentality.

2. Cultivate Global Perspective

Adopt a ’low earth orbit’ perspective to diminish the perceived size of personal problems, foster a sense of kinship and unity with all humans, and counteract tribalism and scarcity thinking.

3. Community & Accountability Practice

Join or create a community group for personal development and find an accountability buddy to text daily updates on your meditation practice, as this structure and support can make a huge difference in establishing consistency.

4. Establish Daily Morning Meditation

Commit to sitting every morning when you wake up, ideally getting up a little before others to ensure quiet time, as this consistent practice is key to personal well-being.

5. Focus on Breath in Meditation

During meditation, choose a specific point of the breath (chest, belly, or nose) to focus on, and gently return your attention there whenever distracted, as this trains focus and enhances receptivity.

6. RAIN for Difficult Emotions

Use the RAIN acronym (Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Non-identification) to process difficult emotions during meditation, observing them impersonally without getting entangled in identification or struggle.

7. “Welcome to the Party” Technique

When difficult thoughts or emotions arise, acknowledge them with a welcoming attitude (“Welcome to the party”) rather than pushing them away, which can help them dissipate more easily.

8. Mindfulness for Intentional Leadership

Incorporate a daily mindfulness practice (e.g., meditation, walking, reading, hobbies) to cultivate intentional living and leadership, ensuring your life is of your own design.

9. Sustainable Living from Space

Adopt “closed-loop” sustainable living practices, inspired by the necessity of recycling all resources in space, to learn to live in a way that emulates nature’s efficiency and helps solve global problems.

10. Meditation for Parental Zen

Meditate to cultivate calmness, presence, and creative responses in parenting, reducing reactive “monkey responses” and enabling you to connect better with your children.

11. Prioritize Sleep for Parenting

Prioritize getting 8 hours of sleep nightly, especially as a parent, as it significantly contributes to calmness, connection, and creative problem-solving with children.

12. Reduce Chatter, Boost Creativity

Consistently bring your attention back to your meditation object to reduce “useless chatter” in the mind, making you more receptive to new and creative ideas.

13. Take Mindfulness into World

Extend mindfulness beyond formal practice into daily activities, using moments like walking between meetings to tune into present sensations instead of distractions, thereby integrating mental hygiene into your day.

14. Practice Formal Walking Meditation

Practice formal walking meditation by slowly pacing a short distance (5-10 yards) and meticulously observing the physical sensations of lifting, moving, and placing each foot, particularly if you experience restlessness during seated meditation.

15. Mix Guided & Unguided Meditation

Incorporate both guided and unguided meditation into your practice, experimenting with self-guided sessions after a few months to find a beneficial mix that suits your needs.

16. Commit to One Technique

When difficult emotions arise during meditation, commit to using a single chosen technique consistently for a period, rather than switching between methods, to build proficiency and reduce doubt.

17. Don’t Overthink Meditation

Avoid self-criticism or excessive confusion about which meditation technique to use, especially as a beginner; acknowledge that awkwardness is normal and give yourself a break.

18. Guided Meditation Is Valid

Embrace guided meditation as a legitimate and useful form of practice, recognizing it’s not “cheating” but a valuable tool for learning and deepening your meditation.

19. Group Meditation Benefits

Meditate in a group or community setting to achieve deeper and faster meditative states, leveraging what is called the “HOV lane effect.”

20. Meditation as Universe Listening

Approach meditation with the intention of being still and quiet to listen for insights and ideas from the “universe,” fostering receptivity.

21. Breath as Rocket Fuel

Reframe the breath during meditation as “rocket fuel” or “power for life” to deepen appreciation and engagement with the practice.

22. Apply Yoda’s Wisdom

Apply Yoda’s wisdom, “Do or do not, there is no try,” to foster a mindset of commitment and decisive action rather than tentative attempts.

23. Practice Vulnerability & Connection

Practice vulnerability and share personal experiences to build deeper connections with others, as this helps people get to know each other on a deeper level.

24. Face Fears, Choose Risk

Confront fears by making a conscious choice to engage in risky, challenging activities that align with your deepest passions, transforming theoretical aspirations into real-world experiences.

25. Yoga for Physical Ailments

Use yoga, especially with guided meditation at the end, to address physical ailments like repetitive strain injury and cultivate calm and positive self-talk.

26. Stretch Before Sitting

Stretch before extended sitting meditation to alleviate fidgetiness, restlessness, and physical discomfort, especially as you age.

27. Engage in Guided Body Scans

Engage in guided body scan meditations for relaxation and connection, allowing your arms to relax and imagining your body filling with sand.

28. Attend Retreats for Connection

Participate in retreats to foster deep connection, vulnerability, and self-reflection, spending time talking with others about fears and relationship obstacles.

29. Support Space Exploration

Support and engage with space exploration initiatives, as they can foster global unity and expand collective consciousness, potentially reaching a tipping point for positive societal change.

30. Foster Community Mindfulness

Foster a culture of mindfulness, mutual support, and collaboration within communities that share a common passion or dream, promoting collective success over competition.

31. Explore App Meditations

Check out the 10% Happier app for new guided meditations focused on stress (from Diana Winston) and patience (from 7A Selassie).

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Subscribe, rate, share on social media, or tell a friend about the podcast to help its viability and rankings.

33. Suggest Podcast Ideas

Suggest podcast topics or guest ideas via Twitter, as these suggestions are actively considered and helpful for show production.