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Justin von Bujdoss, Buddhist Chaplain at Rikers Island

Sep 6, 2017 47m 21s 18 insights
Justin von Bujdoss was working as a hospice chaplain in New York City, traveling all over the five boroughs and greater metropolitan area to visit patients, when he began volunteering at the city's notorious Rikers Island Jail. Von Bujdoss started out teaching meditation to groups of female inmates, but now he's the first ever staff chaplain for the city's Department of Corrections, providing spiritual and emotional support for officers, and he talks about seeing suffering on both sides of prison life.
Actionable Insights

1. Engage with Mortality for Peace

Contemplate the dying process and our shared mortality to gain perspective and find peace, as it helps in letting go of life’s stories and fears, putting you in touch with an unshakable reality.

2. Cultivate Right Livelihood

Strive to align your profession with your personal practice, such as meditation, to create a livelihood that is in harmony with your spiritual or ethical values.

3. Acknowledge Universal Suffering

Recognize that suffering is a democratic experience, transcending wealth or location, as understanding this can foster empathy and put your own challenges into perspective.

4. Meditate for Stress Reduction

Engage in meditation to reduce stress, which directly benefits your physical health by counteracting the negative bodily effects of anxiety, overwork, and poor self-care.

5. Boost Situational Awareness via Meditation

Practice meditation to increase your general and situational awareness, which can help you be less stuck in your head, more attuned to your surroundings, and able to put down irritation in fast-paced or challenging environments.

6. Use Meditation in Crisis

Utilize meditation to manage anxiety and intense situations, as it can help you chill out, slow down, and even out your emotional responses, enabling you to act effectively amidst crisis.

7. Connect by Meeting People Where They Are

Approach interactions by understanding and acknowledging people’s current state and experiences, which helps build relationships and allows them to feel safe enough to be vulnerable.

8. Create Safe Spaces for Vulnerability

When facilitating groups or discussions, intentionally create an environment where individuals feel safe to express emotions and vulnerabilities, and allow for an ‘on-ramp’ period before they return to demanding roles.

9. Practice Non-Conceptual Meditation

Engage in meditation by using your breath or a mantra to stabilize the mind, then objectively watch thoughts and emotions come and go without getting caught up in them, aiming to rest naturally in awareness.

10. Combine Visualization & Non-Conceptual Meditation

Integrate visualization practices, such as visualizing a Buddha or reciting a mantra to focus the mind, with non-conceptual meditation that focuses on maintaining objective awareness of thoughts and emotions.

11. Practice Transcendental Meditation

Recite a mantra silently in your head, and when you notice your awareness has drifted, gently bring it back to the mantra and the present moment.

12. Introduce Meditation to Skeptics

When introducing meditation to those who are hesitant, frame it in relatable terms like finding peace or rest, suggest trying it for a short duration (e.g., two minutes), and enlist allies by connecting it to concepts like focus in warrior cultures or sports figures.

13. Re-examine Personal Identity

Periodically re-evaluate deeply held identities or self-perceptions, especially when they might hinder your ability to benefit others or adapt to new roles, recognizing that external appearances may not define your purpose.

14. Appreciate Mind’s Changing Nature

Recognize that the mind is constantly changing, meaning that agitation and difficult thoughts are impermanent, and this inherent change creates space for new experiences and perspectives.

15. Rest Your Mind Like a Workman

Take short moments to intentionally settle your mind, similar to how a workman rests after a hard day, allowing thoughts and agitation to exhaust themselves naturally without forceful repression.

16. Practice Minute-Long Meditations

Incorporate very short meditation breaks, even just one minute, into your daily routine to touch moments of stillness and awareness without requiring extended periods of practice.

17. Approach Meditation as Art

Adopt a mindset for meditation that is less about willful ‘doing’ and more about relaxing into an experience, similar to how a painter approaches their canvas, fostering creativity and ease.

18. Explore Eastern Thought via Art

Engage with Eastern philosophical and spiritual traditions by exploring their art, as this can provide a natural and comforting entry point for understanding complex concepts.