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Jack Kornfield on How to Stay Sane in Insane Times

Dec 3, 2025 1h 17m 21 insights
<p dir="ltr">Plus: Saying thank you to your anxiety and the opportunity in the dumpster fire.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Jack Kornfield, who trained as a Buddhist monk in the monasteries of Thailand, India and Burma, then returned to the US, where he became one of the leading voices in Buddhism in the West. He co-founded the <a href="http://www.dharma.org/">Insight Meditation Society</a> in Barre, Massachusetts, with <a href="http://www.sharonsalzberg.com/">Sharon Salzberg</a> and <a href="http://www.dharma.org/ims/joseph_goldstein.html">Joseph Goldstein</a>, then he went on to start the <a href="http://www.spiritrock.org/">Spirit Rock</a> Medication Center in Woodacre, California. He's written many books, including his latest, <a href="https://jackkornfield.com/all-in-this-together-stories-and-teachings-for-loving-each-other-and-our-world/"> All In This Together</a>, which is the focus of the conversation you're about to hear, along with a new online course he just posted, called <a href="https://jackkornfield.com/sp/stand-up-for-compassion-a-free-mini-course-for-navigating-uncertain-times-with-jack-kornfield/"> Stand Up for Compassion</a> – which is about staying steady in difficult times.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">In this episode we talk about:</p> <ul> <li dir="ltr">The causes of happiness </li> <li dir="ltr">The opportunities (And this is a counterintuitive notion, but…) The opportunities in the suffering we're experiencing today</li> <li dir="ltr">How to stand up for what you care about while staying calm and steady</li> <li dir="ltr">Ways to zoom out and see the bigger picture  </li> <li dir="ltr">How to cultivate both courage and Joy </li> <li dir="ltr">How Jack gets consistent hits of Joy in his own life</li> <li dir="ltr">Why intention is important — and how to cultivate healthy intentions </li> <li dir="ltr">And other survival strategies for these times</li> </ul> <p><strong><br /> <br /></strong></p> <p dir="ltr">This holiday season, 10% Happier is teaming up with dozens of podcasts for an ambitious goal: to lift three entire villages in Rwanda out of extreme poverty. Join us by visiting <a href="http://givedirectly.org/Dan">GiveDirectly.org/Dan</a> and supporting the #PodsFightPoverty campaign.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Join Dan's online community <a href="http://www.danharris.com/">here</a></p> <p dir="ltr">Follow Dan on social: <a href="https://bit.ly/3tGigG5">Instagram</a>, <a href="https://bit.ly/3FOA84J">TikTok</a></p> <p dir="ltr">Subscribe to our <a href="https://bit.ly/3FybRzD">YouTube Channel</a></p> <p><strong><br /> <br /></strong></p> <p dir="ltr">To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit <a href="https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris">https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris</a></p> <p> </p>
Actionable Insights

1. Transform Suffering’s Inner Roots

Recognize that global suffering stems from human greed, hatred, fear, and ignorance, and actively practice ethics, generosity, forgiveness, compassion, and mindful loving awareness to transform these inner roots.

2. Regulate Anxiety, Act Effectively

Learn to regulate your inner state and reduce anxiety, not to ignore problems, but to enable more effective and responsive engagement with difficult situations.

3. Respond With A Peaceful Heart

When confronting destructive situations, stand up for what you care about with a peaceful heart, avoiding responses fueled by fear, anger, or rage that exacerbate polarization.

4. Ground Actions In Timeless Values

Focus on the value, rightness, and truth of your actions, grounding yourself in timeless values like compassion, mutual respect, and integrity, rather than depending on the hope of specific results.

5. Cultivate Highest Intention

In moments of conflict or decision, take a mindful pause and ask, “What is my highest intention?” allowing this deep intention to guide your tone, actions, and the compass of your heart towards love.

6. Practice Loving-Kindness Meditation

Engage in loving-kindness (metta) practice by sending well-wishes (“May you be well, safe, protected”) first to those you care about, then expanding to others, and finally to yourself, to soothe your heart and foster compassion.

7. Find Courage Through Love

Root yourself in love for the earth and one another, understanding that love is the ultimate power that provides courage and strength to stand up and care, rather than making you weak.

8. Cultivate Joy As Obligation

Actively cultivate joy and align yourself with the possibility of positive change, viewing joy as a moral obligation that renews your spirit and brings a sense of possibility to difficult situations.

9. Connect With Timeless Consciousness

Practice recognizing your true self as timeless awareness or consciousness, distinct from your changing body, emotions, and thoughts, which offers a profound sense of inner freedom and vastness.

10. Envision Wise Society

Envision and work towards a “wise society” built on mutual respect, care for the vulnerable, and environmental stewardship, seeing yourself as an “imaginal cell” contributing to this societal transformation.

11. Be A Hope Make Weight

Understand that your individual actions, no matter how small, can act as “make weights” that tip the balance towards positive change and bring things back into balance.

12. Limit News Consumption

Limit your news consumption to what is necessary to stay informed, then disengage and turn to activities that uplift you, to prevent being overwhelmed by fear and anxiety.

13. Don’t Pick Up The Boulder

Develop the meditative skill to observe your mind spinning out, thank your anxiety for trying to protect you, and then consciously choose not to “pick up” thoughts and worries that sink your spirit.

14. Practice Self-Compassion

When you fall short of ideals, hold yourself with compassion, acknowledging “only human,” and remember it is never too late to start again or plant a good seed.

15. Seek Wisdom Figures’ Backup

Create a physical or mental space filled with figures of wisdom and compassion from various traditions to serve as a source of backup and inspiration, reminding you that you work for something greater.

16. Connect With Nature For Joy

Regularly step out and connect with nature, observing the changes and beauty around you, as a simple and effective way to experience consistent hits of joy.

17. Find Strength In Adversity

Recognize that being “pushed on” by collective challenges can strengthen your roots and allow you to find a different kind of inner strength, much like plants growing stronger with intense music.

18. Emphasize Positive Human History

Choose to emphasize the magnificent acts of compassion, sacrifice, courage, and kindness throughout human history to gain energy for your own actions and contributions, rather than focusing solely on the worst.

19. Be Present To Win

Be present and alive to the moment, rather than lost in fears or thoughts, to respond from a place of deep presence and do things more beautifully and with freedom.

20. Support Community With Kindness

Support one another and your community through acts of care and kindness, recognizing that these small acts contribute to changing the world.

21. Illuminate Tasks With Intention

Before undertaking tasks, especially challenging ones, set an intention for your work to be illuminated by your highest purpose and guided by the spirit of wisdom.