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How To Stop Spinning Out With Bill Hader | Staff Picks

Jul 11, 2025 23m 11s 16 insights
<p dir="ltr">We're bringing you some of our favorite gems from the archives, as chosen by our staff. This week, we're hearing from comedian and actor Bill Hader, as chosen by our digital media manager, Hayden Broom. Hader was part of our "Non-Negotiables" series, and he told Dan, with some disappointment, that "the hippies were right."<br /> <br /></p> <p dir="ltr">Full Episode: </p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.danharris.com/p/bill-hader-on-anxiety-imposter-syndrome-e1e?utm_source=publication-search"> Bill Hader on Anxiety, Imposter Syndrome, and Leaning Into Discomfort</a></p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Join Dan's online community <a href="http://www.danharris.com">here</a></p> <p dir="ltr">Follow Dan on social: <a href="https://bit.ly/3tGigG5">Instagram</a>, <a href="https://bit.ly/3FOA84J">TikTok</a></p> <p dir="ltr">Subscribe to our <a href="https://bit.ly/3FybRzD">YouTube Channel</a></p> <p><br /> To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit <a href="https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris">https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris</a></p>
Actionable Insights

1. Label Anxiety Aloud

When experiencing a wave of anxiety, explicitly state “This is anxiety” out loud; this simple act can help the feeling dissipate within minutes.

2. Stop Future-Tripping

When your mind fixates and spirals into negative narratives about future events, consciously tell yourself to “stop” and ground yourself in the present moment, as worrying excessively about what hasn’t happened is unproductive.

3. Follow Daily Wellness Protocol

Implement a daily routine that includes meditating, exercising, drinking more water than coffee, going easy on sweets, writing, engaging in creative work, and experiencing art to consistently feel better.

4. Cultivate Positive Narratives

Actively work on replacing negative future narratives with more positive ones, as consistently creating dark scenarios can be detrimental to mental well-being.

5. Prioritize Morning Self-Care

Dedicate time in the morning, especially, to practices like meditation and exercise, as this helps you become more open, present, and a better listener throughout the day.

6. Prioritize Meditation & Sleep

Ensure you get enough sleep and practice meditation, as these foundational habits make it easier to be kind and less critical of yourself.

7. Explore Mindfulness Meditation

Consider practicing mindfulness meditation, as it helps in pinpointing and becoming aware of your current feelings and bodily sensations without getting lost in them, unlike TM which focuses on deep relaxation via a mantra.

8. Combine Wellness Practices

Integrate multiple wellness practices like mindfulness meditation, therapy, and other self-care routines, rather than relying on just one, for a more holistic and effective approach to mental well-being.

9. Practice Self-Awareness Without Judgment

Use mindfulness to become aware of your behaviors (e.g., talking a lot when nervous) in the moment, observing them with a sense of humor rather than beating yourself up.

10. Connoisseur of Your Neuroses

Understand that meditation doesn’t eliminate worries, but rather helps you observe and appreciate your neuroses with a sense of humor, allowing you to step back from being consumed by them.

11. Embrace Holistic Wellness

Incorporate practices like eating well, stretching, engaging in physical activity (e.g., playing ultimate Frisbee), meditating, and listening to inspiring music into your routine, recognizing their proven benefits for well-being.

12. Avoid Anxiety Triggers

Be mindful of exhaustion, over-consumption of coffee, and sugar, as these can contribute to heightened anxiety and panic.

13. Meditate Even If Boring

Engage in meditation regularly, even if you find it boring, because it is known to immediately make you feel better.

14. Name “Propunctia” to Deflate

When your mind fixates and spirals into negative future projections (known as “propunctia”), simply naming this ancient phenomenon can help take the pressure out of it and reduce its power over you.

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Become a paid subscriber at shop.danharris.com to access new custom meditations available with every Monday and Wednesday episode, featuring a teacher of the month like Don Mauricio.

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