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How To Figure Out What You Actually Need Right Now | Meditation with Sebene Selassie

Oct 12, 2025 13m 31s 19 insights
<p dir="ltr">Listening to your body… easier said than done? Sebene Selassie is here to help. </p> <p dir="ltr">All this month, we're sharing custom guided meditations from our teacher of the month, Sebene Selassie exclusively available at <a href="http://danharris.com/">DanHarris.com</a>. Like any good drug dealer, the first taste is free – so today, we're giving you a sample of what you can expect for the rest of the month.<br /> <br /> Related Episodes: </p> <ul> <li dir="ltr"> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.danharris.com/p/sebene-selassie-on-resiliency-rewriting?r=4o5o&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=false"> Sebene Selassie On: Resiliency, Rewriting Your Patterns and Finding a Teacher Who Speaks to You</a></p> </li> </ul> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <p dir="ltr">Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more at <a href="http://eomega.org/workshops/meditation-party-2025">eomega.org/workshops/meditation-party-2025</a>.</p> <p dir="ltr">Tickets are now on sale for a special live taping of the 10% Happier Podcast with guest Pete Holmes! Join us on November 18th in NYC for this benefit show, with all proceeds supporting the New York Insight Meditation Center. Grab your tickets <a href="https://www.nyimc.org/event/great-cosmic-joke/">here</a>!</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Join Dan's online community <a href="http://www.danharris.com/">here</a></p> <p dir="ltr">Follow Dan on social: <a href="https://bit.ly/3tGigG5">Instagram</a>, <a href="https://bit.ly/3FOA84J">TikTok</a></p> <p dir="ltr">Subscribe to our <a href="https://bit.ly/3FybRzD">YouTube Channel</a></p> <p><strong id="docs-internal-guid-4ca5a481-7fff-b0fb-26c5-d67bb1b9b16d"><br /> To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit <a href="https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris">https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris</a></strong><br /> <br /> Thanks to our
Actionable Insights

1. Cultivate Daily Inner Knowing

Practice tuning into your inner knowing for even a few minutes a day to develop the capacity to listen to your deeper understanding of needs and possibilities.

2. Prepare Meditation Posture

Find a comfortable position (sitting, standing, or lying down) with a naturally straight, non-rigid spine, and either close your eyes or soften your gaze downward.

3. Arrive in Present Moment

Take a moment to fully arrive by noticing any sounds or sensations in your current room or space to help center your attention.

4. Sense Body’s Support

Begin by sensing your body, noticing where it makes contact with its support, and feeling your weight settle into that support.

5. Deepen Breath, Settle In

Take a few deep breaths, allowing yourself to sink a little deeper into the moment with each exhale.

6. Notice Body Sensations

Observe any subtle or strong sensations in your body, such as movements, vibrations, pulsing, tingling, or the natural flow of your breath.

7. Direct Awareness Inward

Bring your awareness inward to a specific body area (e.g., heart, belly, behind eyes) to connect with your quieter body wisdom, distinct from racing thoughts.

8. Rest in Inner Space

Rest in this inward awareness, sensing the chosen space or place in your body, and simply being with whatever is present.

9. Ask “What Do I Need?”

Drop the question “What do I need right now?” into your inner space, listening with your body for an answer without mental searching, and trusting the first thing that arises.

10. Discern Body’s Response

Feel into the response, noticing if it creates expansion or contraction, changes your breathing, or feels true in your bones, as your body communicates in ways your mind may not understand.

11. Ask “What Wants to Emerge?”

Drop the question “What wants to emerge in my life?” into your inner knowing, staying open and receptive without forcing an answer, and observing how the response lands in your body.

12. Rest in Inner Connection

Take a few moments to simply rest in this connection with your inner knowing, appreciating this capacity without needing to immediately act on what came up.

13. Use Breath to Return

Feel your breath moving in and out, trusting that you can return to this place of inner listening anytime you need to with each breath.

14. Practice Listening to Cues

Regularly practice listening to subtle bodily cues and trusting what you feel, as this consistent practice will make your inner knowing clearer over time.

15. Reconnect with Surroundings

Open your eyes and take a moment to reconnect with your surroundings, stretching or moving your body if it feels good, after the meditation.

16. Subscribe for Custom Meditations

Sign up at danharris.com to receive custom guided meditations that come with all of the Monday and Wednesday episodes during October.

17. Join Live Q&A

Subscribe to danharris.com to get access to weekly live video meditation and Q&A sessions every Tuesday at 4 PM Eastern.

18. Attend In-Person Retreat

Consider attending the weekend-long meditation retreat at the Omega Institute from October 24th-26th to meditate, converse, and participate in Q&A with Dan Harris and Seben A. Selassie.

19. Check Show Notes for Events

Check the link in the show notes to sign up for the in-person event on the weekend of October 24th.