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How To Be Sanely Ambitious | Behind the Scenes with Dan and DJ

Mar 7, 2025 27m 44s 26 insights
<p dir="ltr">Dan and executive producer DJ Cashmere talk about how we're putting "sanely ambitious" into action on our team; plus, an important update on how to listen to the podcast ad-free.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">In this episode we talk about:</p> <ul> <li dir="ltr"> <p dir="ltr">How rest and productivity are two sides of the same coin</p> </li> <li dir="ltr"> <p dir="ltr">What psychological safety looks like on a small, creative team</p> </li> <li dir="ltr"> <p dir="ltr">Having a "parking lot" for great ideas that we aren't ready to do</p> </li> <li dir="ltr"> <p dir="ltr">Other ways we're navigating some big changes in our business</p> </li> </ul> <p>Related episodes: <br /> <a href="https://www.danharris.com/p/work-less-get-more-done-alex-soojung-b52?r=4o5o&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=false" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Work Less, Get More Done | Alex Soojong Kim-Pang</a><br /> <a href="https://www.danharris.com/p/digital-minimalism-cal-newport-de4?r=4o5o&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=false" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Digital Minimalism | Cal Newport</a><br /> <a href="https://www.danharris.com/p/help-work-sucks-cal-newport-7ce?r=4o5o&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=false" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Help, Work Sucks | Cal Newport</a><br /> <a href="https://www.danharris.com/p/how-to-be-productive-without-burning-f0d?r=4o5o&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=false" rel="noopener" target="_blank">How to Be Productive Without Burning Out | Cal Newport</a></p> <p dir="ltr">BIG NEWS:<br /> Paid subscribers can now listen to the 10% Happier podcast ad-free by going to <a href="http://podcast.danharris.com">podcast.danharris.com</a>! If you're not a paid subscriber, you will be prompted to sign up there. It's another one of our perks for our paid subscribers, including transcripts and cheat sheets for every episode, plus live guided meditations and Q&amp;A sessions with Dan.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Follow Dan on social: <a href="https://bit.ly/3tGigG5">Instagram</a>, <a href="https://bit.ly/3FOA84J">TikTok</a></strong></p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Subscribe to our <a href="https://bit.ly/3FybRzD">YouTube Channel</a></strong></p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Our favorite playlists on: <a href="https://spoti.fi/3Qa8kMT">Anxiety</a>, <a href="https://spoti.fi/3MjtMxF">Sleep</a>, <a href="https://spoti.fi/3QvyA5J">Relationships</a>, <a href="https://spoti.fi/3QxZASc">Most Popular Episodes</a></strong></p> <p> </p>
Actionable Insights

1. Cultivate Psychological Safety

Prioritize creating psychological safety in teams, relationships, and families, ensuring everyone feels comfortable speaking up regardless of hierarchy, as it’s crucial for well-functioning groups.

2. Integrate Sanity and Ambition

Adopt a mindset where sanity and ambition are seen as mutually reinforcing, like Thich Nhat Hanh’s concept of ‘interbeing,’ recognizing that one relies on and includes the other for sustainable success.

3. Prioritize Rest Policies

Managers and employers should implement humane policies for time off and rest, as data shows people produce their best work when they have vacations, balance, and the ability to care for family.

4. View Rest as Essential

Understand that rest is a ‘must-have,’ not a ’nice-to-have,’ because rest and work are two sides of the same coin, with one fueling the other for optimal performance.

5. Pursue Ambition with Calm

Aim for big, audacious goals but approach them with a ’low resting heart rate’ to prevent burnout and maintain sanity, avoiding the ‘pizza and fear’ culture often found in high-pressure environments.

6. Double Project Timelines

Practice ‘slow productivity’ by doubling all project timelines, giving yourself more time than initially estimated (e.g., two months for a one-month task) to reduce rush and improve quality.

7. Honor System for Sick Leave

Adopt an honor system for sick days and emergency time off, allowing employees to take time when needed without a set limit or counting it against vacation, reducing stress during difficult situations.

8. Mandate Minimum Vacation

Implement a policy requiring employees to take a minimum number of additional days off each year (e.g., 15 days, in addition to company holidays and a summer vacation), without requiring a reason, to ensure rest and prevent burnout.

9. Set Communication Boundaries

Create systems and cultures where team members feel comfortable not responding to late-breaking messages unless it’s an emergency, and avoid checking work communications frequently during weekends.

10. Use an Idea Parking Lot

Create a ‘parking lot’ or ’not now’ list for new ideas, prioritizing them and revisiting them periodically, to manage ambition without overwhelming the team and ensure good ideas aren’t lost.

11. Weekly ‘Red, Yellow, Green’ Check-ins

Conduct weekly one-on-one check-ins with direct reports, starting with a ‘red, yellow, green’ assessment of their work well-being, and foster a culture where honest responses are encouraged to identify and remove obstacles.

12. Prioritize Public Communication

For remote teams, move as much communication as possible from private to public channels to prevent feelings of exclusion or secret cabals, fostering transparency and trust.

13. Model Open Questioning

Model and encourage direct questions and pushback to seek clarity, preventing team members from ‘chasing after breadcrumbs’ and ensuring everyone understands expectations.

14. Engage Junior Staff, Reward Dissent

Make it a habit to involve the most junior people in discussions and publicly reward those who challenge you, especially if you have a clear power dynamic or intimidating presence.

15. Schedule Public Rest Blocks

Schedule 15-minute rest blocks on your calendar daily, making them public to hold yourself accountable and encourage others to prioritize rest.

16. Prioritize Personal Breaks

Identify the types of breaks that are most effective for your well-being, such as exercise, meditation, and socializing, and integrate them into your routine.

17. Seek Challenging Voices

Actively seek out and surround yourself with people who are willing to challenge your opinions, fostering intellectual humility and open-mindedness, as recommended by Adam Grant.

18. Set Maximum Vacation

Establish a maximum number of vacation days (e.g., 25 days, including company holidays and a summer vacation) to ensure sufficient staffing for meetings and tasks.

19. Permission to Decline/Extend

Cultivate a culture where team members feel empowered to honestly communicate when they cannot take on a task or when a project will take longer than expected.

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