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Don't Let This Crisis Go To Waste | Roshi Joan Halifax

May 20, 2020 1h 11m 28 insights
Roshi Joan Halifax is definitely not arguing the pandemic is a good thing, but she also believes we shouldn't let this crisis go to waste. It's a wake-up call, she says - a chance for us to really take a beat and ask ourselves what actually matters, both individually and as a culture. Roshi Joan Halifax is a buddhist teacher, zen priest, anthropologist, and pioneer in the field of end-of-life care. She is founder, abbot, and head teacher of Upaya Institute and Zen Center in Santa Fe, New Mexico. And her motto for this crisis, as you will hear, is: strong back, soft front. Where to find Roshi Joan Halifax online: Website: https://www.upaya.org/about/roshi/ Twitter: Joan Halifax (@jhalifax) / https://twitter.com/jhalifax Facebook: Joan Halifax / https://www.facebook.com/joan.halifax For a limited time, we're offering a 40% discount on a year-long subscription to the app. Visit tenpercent.com/podcast40 to get your discount and get support for your meditation practice today. This promotion is only available to users without a current Ten Percent Happier app subscription. Other Resources Mentioned: Glassman Roshi / https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bernie_Glassman Arnold van Gennep / https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arnold_van_Gennep What is Jukai? / https://www.lionsroar.com/what-is-jukai/ Biography of Nelson Mandela – Nelson Mandela Foundation https://www.nelsonmandela.org/content/page/biography Malala - Girls' Education / https://malala.org/advocacy?sc=header Heather McTeer Toney / https://www.momscleanairforce.org/team/heather-mcteer-toney/ The Sun My Heart by Thich Nhat Hanh / https://www.amazon.com/Sun-Heart-Thich-Nhat-Hanh/dp/0712654224 Aldo Leopold / https://www.aldoleopold.org/about/aldo-leopold/ Robert Bly / http://www.robertbly.com/ Stanislav Grof / https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanislav_Grof Venerable Tara Tulku Rinpoche Additional Resources: Ten Percent Happier Live: https://tenpercent.com/live Coronavirus Sanity Guide: https://www.tenpercent.com/coronavirussanityguide Free App Access for Journalists, Teachers, Healthcare, Grocery and Food Delivery, and Warehouse Workers: https://tenpercent.com/care Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/joan-halifax-249
Actionable Insights

1. Cultivate Strong Back, Soft Front

Develop inner strength and equanimity to uphold yourself in difficult conditions, combined with an open, compassionate heart that cares for all beings equally.

2. Practice Radical Non-Separateness

Engage in meditation and use everyday experiences to break down the sense of a separate self, realizing profound interconnectedness with all beings and things.

3. Embrace Impermanence & Present

Understand that everything is transient and that attempts to create absolute security lead to suffering. Instead, care for, respect, and appreciate the present moment, even when it is difficult.

4. Turn Inward During Crisis

Use times of forced withdrawal or crisis as an opportunity to look inwardly, examine your mind, heart, values, and integrity, and reflect on life’s true purpose.

5. Address Your Inner Voice

Become aware of the nonstop ‘inner voice’ and use meditation as an antidote to systematically observe powerful emotions, random thoughts, and unhelpful urges, thereby gaining freedom from being controlled by them.

6. Cultivate Love & Care

Develop ’love’ as an evolutionarily wired capacity to care, similar to mindfulness, and integrate both for an upward spiral of personal growth.

7. Practice Brahma Viharas

Engage in the cultivation of loving-kindness, compassion, sympathetic joy, and equanimity through meditation phrases to foster unselfish motivation and open up to the world with greater kindness.

8. Learn from Systemic Breakdowns

Recognize that when systems break down (like during a pandemic), learning from these breakdowns can lead to a reorganization process at a much higher order for society.

9. Cultivate Hope, Not Optimism

Develop hope by acknowledging the truth of uncertainty and the possibility that anything, including the best, could happen, which motivates action.

10. Rehumanize Objectified Individuals

Practice seeing individuals who have been objectified or polarized (e.g., politicians, criminals) as human beings, separating the person from their harmful actions or suffering.

11. Shift to Suffering Perspective

Change your perspective from judging things as ‘good and evil’ to understanding them in terms of ‘suffering and not suffering’ to foster deeper understanding and compassion.

12. Leverage Privilege for Growth

If in a position of privilege, make the most of a crisis to explore inwardly and be generous outwardly, recognizing the expectation to give back proportionally.

13. Engage in Small Acts of Service

For those able to shelter safely, engage in intimate acts of service such as cooking for the homeless, creating cards for isolated elderly, and practicing good hygiene for others’ safety.

14. Address Societal Injustices

Acknowledge and actively address visible societal injustices (racism, classism, ageism, sexism) at both individual and systemic levels, viewing this as a call for revolutionary change.

15. Lean Into Discomfort & Be Useful

When experiencing discomfort (e.g., from uncertainty), lean into it, investigate it with openness, and use the recognition of shared discomfort as an opportunity to be useful to others.

16. Embrace Cessation (Stop)

During times of forced pause, embrace both physical and mental ‘stopping’ (cessation), using this perspective to engage in acts of compassion and service, and to live less externally.

17. Reflect on Crisis Lessons

Reflect deeply on lessons learned during the crisis to inform future actions regarding the economy, environment, gender parity, child abuse, race, and poverty, aiming to end structural violence.

18. Commit to New Values

Wake up amidst difficult conditions and commit to values that prevent repeating past mistakes, actively working to bring grace, kindness, and justice into the world during the ‘return’ phase.

19. Support Voter Registration & Education

Use available resources to actively support voter registration and education.

20. Engage with Local Community

Actively engage with and appreciate neighbors and local community connections, especially during times of isolation, to foster stronger bonds.

21. Avoid Group Stigmatization

Avoid stigmatizing entire groups of people (e.g., all white males, all politicians); instead, view each individual in their totality, beyond group labels.

22. Work to Rectify Patriarchy

If identifying as a privileged white male, recognize the need to work twice as hard to rectify the damage caused by patriarchy.

23. Introduce Practice with 10% Happier

When introducing meditation or similar practices, focus on immediate, tangible benefits like calmness and focus as an accessible entry point.

24. Sustain Practice for Motivation

Maintain a meditation practice, even for short durations, to observe how motivations evolve, leading to a natural desire to act kindly and reduce self-preoccupation.

25. Consult Experts for Safety

Consult experts like epidemiologists and clinicians for guidance on safety measures during a crisis, and be prepared to implement strict isolation if risks are high.

26. Practice Basic Hygiene as Care

Consistently practice basic hygiene, such as hand washing and using hand sanitizer, viewing these actions as acts of care for oneself and the wider community.

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