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Dan Ryckert

Jul 20, 2016 50m 4s 15 insights
Dan Ryckert works in an industry where you wouldn't imagine there would be a whole lot of meditation: Video games. Ryckert is a senior editor at the popular video game website, Giant Bomb, and he's the author of "Anxiety as an Ally: How I Turned a Worried Mind into My Best Friend." Ryckert's raw memoir details his struggles with anxiety and panic attacks, from trying to find a diagnosis and then with learning how to deal with the attacks in his personal and professional life, and then how he eventually turned to meditation.
Actionable Insights

1. Confront Anxiety Triggers Directly

Actively seek out and face situations that cause anxiety or panic, rather than avoiding them, because avoidance can shrink your world and worsen fears over time.

2. Cultivate Daily Meditation Practice

Start with short, consistent mindfulness meditation sessions (e.g., 10 minutes daily) and gradually increase duration, as this practice profoundly helps control thoughts and reduce anxiety.

3. Embrace Holistic Mental Health

Remain open-minded to using a diverse range of tools, including meditation, medication, healthy eating, adequate sleep, and exercise, to create a personalized and effective strategy for managing mental well-being.

4. Reframe Meditation Distractions as Wins

During meditation, view moments when your mind wanders and you notice it as a ‘win,’ because the act of recognizing distraction and returning focus is the core practice itself.

5. Communicate Anxiety to Authority

Inform bosses or professors about your anxiety to help them understand your behavior (e.g., needing to leave a room or being quiet) and prevent misinterpretations.

6. Actively Engage to Overcome Anxiety

When anticipatory anxiety strikes before a feared event, consciously direct yourself to act, as the anxiety often diminishes once you become engaged in the situation.

7. Question Safety Protocols for Anxiety

Before engaging in anxiety-inducing situations (e.g., an MRI), ask detailed questions about safety measures and exit options to gain a sense of control and reduce fear.

8. Practice Mindful Eating Technique

Enhance pleasure and awareness by slowly engaging all your senses (texture, smell, taste) with a single piece of food, such as a cashew or raisin, rather than mindless consumption.

9. Carry Emergency Medication ‘Fire Extinguisher’

Keep emergency medication (like Xanax) on hand for panic attacks; its mere presence can provide psychological comfort, even if rarely used.

10. Learn Meditation Through Reading

Deepen your meditation practice by reading books from respected authors and teachers (e.g., Sharon Salzberg, Mark Epstein, Jon Kabat-Zinn), and revisit them regularly to reinforce understanding and motivation.

11. Seek Diagnosis, Community Support

Obtain a professional diagnosis for anxiety to gain a clear understanding, and find online communities to share experiences, which can normalize feelings and reduce isolation.

12. Commit to 30-Day Meditation Experiment

Dedicate yourself to meditating for 10 minutes every day for a month as an experiment, as consistent practice can lead to tremendous and transformative benefits.

13. Use Therapy for Self-Realization

Engage in therapy to explore your personal history and gain insights into the origins of your behaviors and personality traits, fostering self-understanding and growth.

14. Avoid Expectations in Meditation

Do not have specific expectations about how your meditation practice should feel or what results it should yield, as this can lead to discouragement and hinder progress.

15. View Meditation as a Skill

Understand that meditation is a skill that develops over time with consistent practice, rather than expecting immediate mastery or specific feelings.