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A New Way To Think About Your Time | Ashley Whillans (2021)

Apr 6, 2022 1h 11m 23 insights
<p><strong>New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers.</strong></p> <p><strong>---</strong></p> <p>What if one of the keys to happiness is how intentional you are with your time?</p> <p><br /></p> <p>Ashley Whillans is an Assistant Professor at Harvard Business School and author of the book <em>Time Smart.</em> Her groundbreaking research has led her to radically reevaluate how she spends her own time. Her goal is to help you move from time poverty to time affluence.</p> <p><br /></p> <p>In this conversation, we talk about: </p> <ul> <li>How to do a time audit</li> <li>Funding time, finding time, and reframing time</li> <li>The surprising extent to which prioritizing time over money predicts happiness–and what to do if you usually do the opposite</li> <li>How to handle "time confetti"</li> <li>The value of canceling meetings</li> </ul> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Full Shownotes:</strong> <a href="https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/ashley-whillans-repost-318" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/ashley-whillans-repost-318</a></p>
Actionable Insights

1. Prioritize Time Over Money

Consciously choose time over money by being willing to give up money for more free time (e.g., working fewer hours), as this reliably predicts greater happiness and better time allocation towards meaningful activities.

2. Conduct a Time Audit

Reflect on a typical day (e.g., a Tuesday) by mapping out activities in the morning, afternoon, and evening. Identify what activities are meaningful, pleasant, stressful, or mindlessly engaged in to cultivate awareness of your time spending habits.

3. Maximize Meaning & Pleasure

After auditing your time, maximize time spent on activities that bring meaning, joy, or both (e.g., purposeful work, volunteering, family time). Diversify your ’time portfolio’ to include both meaningful (e.g., parenting) and pleasant (e.g., massage) activities.

4. Minimize Unpleasant Activities

Reduce time spent on activities that are unpleasant, stressful, or lack meaning (e.g., doom scrolling, excessive email checking). Consider if these can be eliminated, outsourced, or delegated.

5. Fund Time by Outsourcing

Use money to pay others to do unpleasant, non-meaningful, or stressful tasks (e.g., household chores, certain work tasks) to reduce stress and free up your time for more positive activities.

6. Find Time: Proactive Scheduling

Identify pockets of time that ‘go missing’ (e.g., due to technology traps like email or social media) and proactively schedule positive activities (e.g., walks, conversations, calls) during those blocks instead. Set specific times to actively disengage from technology.

7. Find Time: Activity Bundling

Combine an activity you enjoy (e.g., listening to music or a podcast) with a less enjoyable but necessary one (e.g., errands, exercise) to make the latter more pleasant and effectively ‘find’ more time for what you like.

8. Reframe Unpleasant Tasks

For tasks you cannot outsource or eliminate, reframe them by connecting them to broader goals or positive outcomes (e.g., seeing how work drudgery helps colleagues, or how chores instill values in children).

9. Reframe Weekends as Vacations

Treat your weekends as special ‘vacation time’ by telling yourself they are different and trying to savor them. This helps you be more present, enjoy leisure, and reduce goal conflict related to work.

10. Keep Your ‘Big Why’ in Mind

Regularly reflect on your purpose, core values, and what truly matters in life. Strive to spend your time daily in ways that align with how you would spend an ideal or your last day.

11. Create Physical Reminders

Place physical reminders in your environment (e.g., a tattoo, a note) to help you stay centered on your intentions and goals, encouraging you to savor everyday experiences and disconnect from distractions.

12. Time Affluence To-Do List

Prepare a list of positive, socially connected activities (e.g., going for a walk, calling a friend) to engage in when unexpected free time arises (e.g., a canceled meeting), instead of defaulting to unproductive habits.

13. Schedule Undisrupted Work Blocks

Allocate specific blocks of time (e.g., two hours, twice a week) in your calendar for important work, free from technological disruptions, and treat these blocks as critically as any other meeting.

14. Plan Proactive Work Blocks

Dedicate a 30-minute planning session weekly before your proactive work blocks to outline exactly what you will accomplish during those times, ensuring accountability and maximizing their benefit.

15. Ease into Difficult Tasks

When starting a work block, begin with easy, low-level tasks (e.g., editing, fixing references) to build momentum and a sense of competence before transitioning to more challenging or substantial work.

16. Build WFH Breaks & Boundaries

Deliberately incorporate breaks, boundaries, and transitions into your work-from-home schedule (e.g., virtual commutes, starting meetings later/ending earlier) to mitigate increased work hours, time stress, and goal conflict.

17. Foster Unscripted Social Interactions

As an employer or team leader, shorten formal meetings and create space at the beginning or end for casual chats, or implement ‘random coffee chats’ to encourage spontaneous social connections, joy, and creativity among colleagues.

18. Take Regular Time Off

Take vacations, even short ones of three to five days, to recharge and recover. Employees who take time off return to work happier, more engaged, and more productive, and this helps prevent burnout.

19. Disrupt Morning Habits

Avoid immediately checking your inbox or starting work upon waking. Instead, take 30 minutes to be deliberate and intentional, reflecting on your purpose to infuse your day with intentionality.

20. Engage in Service (Underemployed)

If underemployed or unemployed, find ways to spend discretionary time making a positive contribution to society or helping others. This can foster a sense of competence, control, happiness, and meaning, combating feelings of dissatisfaction.

21. Shift Cultural Focus from Work

As individuals and a society, consciously shift work, productivity, and economic success from the absolute center of life to a more peripheral role, prioritizing leisure and social relationships for greater happiness and resilience.

22. Time-Consciousness is Pro-Social

Recognize that becoming more time-focused and time-affluent is not selfish; it enables you to better show up at work and in your personal life, thereby contributing more effectively to society.

23. Time Management for All

Understand that time management strategies like reframing and finding time are beneficial for everyone, regardless of financial status, and can be particularly impactful for those who are financially constrained and often the most time-poor.