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A Meditator in the Arena | Sam Harris

Dec 7, 2020 1h 4m 15 insights
Sam Harris (no relation to me, by the way -- although I wouldn't mind it) has had a formative impact on my contemplative development. He was one of the first "normal" (at least that's how I computed it, back when I was still a rather judgmental skeptic) people I met who was really into meditation, which gave me a lot of courage and inspiration to pursue the practice myself. He later helped me get into my first meditation retreat with his old friend Joseph Goldstein, which was a massively important event in my life and the beginning of a deep relationship with Joseph. For those of you who aren't familiar with Sam, he is a neuroscientist, philosopher, author, podcaster, and app founder. I first heard of him in the mid-aughts, when he wrote a book called The End of Faith, which was a jeremiad against organized religion. I was surprised to learn that he had spent, cumulatively, several years on meditation retreats. He later wrote a book which touched on those subjects, called Waking Up. That is also the name of his meditation app. But while he has one foot firmly in the contemplative world, he is also very much in the arena, mixing it up on Twitter and on his wildly popular podcast, called Making Sense, with his controversial views on hot-button issues from Trump to race to Islam. Sam really believes that the future of civilization depends on our ability to have rational conversations on thorny issues. And he has a new book called Making Sense: Conversations on Consciousness, Morality, and the Future of Humanity, in which some of his podcast conversations are revised and extended. I wanted to have him on to talk about the book, and to explore with him how somebody who is so fiercely engaged in the public square uses meditation to guide and sustain him. I suspect many of you may disagree with him on key issues -- I often wrestle with his ideas quite a bit, personally -- but no matter where you stand, I think you'll find his answers to these questions fascinating. Take Part in the New Year's Series To submit a question or share a reflection dial 646-883-8326 and leave us a voicemail. If you're outside the United States, you can email us a voice memo file in mp3 format to listener@tenpercent.com. The deadline for submissions is Monday December 7th. Where to find Sam Harris online: Website: https://samharris.org Twitter: https://twitter.com/SamHarrisOrg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Samharrisorg/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samharrisorg YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNAxrHudMfdzNi6NxruKPLw Books Mentioned: Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion by Sam Harris: https://bookshop.org/books/waking-up-a-guide-to-spirituality-without-religion/9781451636024 The End of Faith: Religion, Terror, and the Future of Reason by Sam Harris: https://bookshop.org/books/the-end-of-faith-religion-terror-and-the-future-of-reason/9780393327656 On Having No Head: Zen and the Rediscovery of the Obvious by Douglas E. Harding: https://bookshop.org/books/on-having-no-head/9781908774064 If you're looking for a sign that you're supposed to start actually meditating - this is it. And, you can bring a friend or family member along for the ride. For a limited time, if you buy yourself a subscription to Ten Percent Happier, we'll send you a free gift subscription to share with whomever you'd like. Note that nothing is permanent, and this offer is no exception: get it before it ends by going to www.tenpercent.com/december. Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/sam-harris-306
Actionable Insights

1. Recognize Non-Dual Awareness

Practice non-dual mindfulness by turning attention inward to find the ‘knower’ or ‘seer,’ realizing the illusory nature of the separate self and that you are identical to consciousness itself. This shift provides decisive, freeing insight into the nature of mind, available sooner than one might expect.

2. Integrate Practice into Life

Aim to erase the boundary between formal meditation and daily life by recognizing there is no fundamental difference, punctuate every period of the day with a practice-oriented mindset, and engage in many shorter sessions rather than long, infrequent ones. This approach fosters continuous mindfulness and avoids segmenting life into ‘practice’ and ’non-practice’ periods.

3. Cultivate Compassion Universally

Cultivate compassion by recognizing the profound role of luck in all life outcomes (e.g., health, birth, intelligence) and the universal experience of suffering, confusion, fear, and disappointment that all people share. This understanding makes compassion the only appropriate attitude towards others, as ‘we’re all in a mess together.’

4. Leverage Ideas for Well-being

Focus on influencing public opinion by actively identifying and correcting bad ideas while amplifying better ones, as ideas are the most potent force for safeguarding and increasing human well-being. This offers immense leverage in improving society, as the world is mostly filled with good people misguided by bad ideas.

5. Engage Publicly with Honesty

When engaging in public discourse, prioritize absolute clarity, honesty, and comprehensiveness, recognizing your responsibility to the audience and the duty to speak clearly on important topics without evasion. This builds credibility and fosters productive dialogue, even on controversial issues.

6. Recover Quickly from Emotions

Rather than striving for constant equanimity, focus on developing the ability to recover quickly from emotional disequilibrium (e.g., anger, outrage, fear) when it arises. These emotions can serve as valuable ‘salience signals’ that warrant attention and appropriate response to real dangers.

7. Differentiate True Compassion

Understand the difference between genuine compassion and ‘idiot compassion,’ which can lead to inaction or non-engagement in the face of real danger or injustice. Remaining silent when important values are threatened is a failure to understand the sane project of maintaining human well-being.

8. Practice Intellectual Honesty

Be quick to apologize and correct errors when wrong, especially in public discourse, to maintain intellectual honesty and credibility. Avoid exaggerating flaws, even of genuinely contemptible figures, as this is unnecessary and destroys your credibility.

9. Curate Social Media Engagement

Protect your mental well-being by intelligently curating your social media engagement, focusing on putting out your message and avoiding excessive engagement with negative feedback or things you cannot influence. This prevents unnecessary mental pain and distraction.

10. Build Resilience to ‘Cancellation’

Deliberately build resilience against ‘cancellation’ to create a space where smart, well-intentioned people can speak honestly in public without fear of severe repercussions. This helps foster a safer environment for open discourse and challenging taboos.

11. Use Conversation for Convergence

Recognize conversation as the sole non-violent tool for influencing others, fostering cooperation, and resolving conflicts. Engage with the goal of either persuading others to your values or being open to adopting theirs, as convergence is essential for societal progress.

12. Avoid Dogmatism & Identity Politics

Steer clear of dogmatism and identity politics in conversations, as these approaches hinder productive dialogue and prevent the convergence necessary for resolving societal challenges. They are ’the wrong algorithms’ for constructive engagement.

13. Employ ‘Veil of Ignorance’

When considering social policy or justice, employ philosophical tools like John Rawls’s ‘original position’ by imagining decisions from behind a ‘veil of ignorance,’ where you don’t know your own identity in society. This helps virtually all people converge on fair and just solutions.

14. Start Meditating

If you haven’t started meditating, consider this a direct encouragement to begin the practice for mental well-being and contemplative development. It is a sign to start your journey.

15. Utilize Meditation App Offers

Take advantage of promotional offers for meditation app subscriptions to access guided meditations and community support, potentially sharing a gift subscription with a friend or family member. This can help you and others stay engaged without losing your mind.